this guy i worked with used to always compliment me at work but i always took it as joking around. one day i told him i was quiting and that the following day would be my last and he asked me to stick around and go on a lunch break with him. we sat outside and talked for a while and before i got up to leave he asked for my number and instead i took his and told him that i would txt him my number that night. wen i txtd him he was really grateful bcoz he thort i wuldnt do it. after that he messaged me everyday and everynite and he even asked to meet up. we did the following afternoon and we had something to eat n drink and it was going great. he asked me to come to his house bbq that he n his mates were throwing in 3 weeks n he sed he wuld call to let me know. after that day i neva heard from him again and a couple months later he txtd asking who i was. i was completely crushed and dont understand him now. what does this mean. p.s im 18 he was 22
2007-03-22 22:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously he's not a stable personality!
2007-03-22 22:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by plutonas2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because he's 22 - frankly, that's an age where "smooth" just isn't understood. But it is also an age where a guy has a LOT of different opportunities. In three weeks, someone else may have come along and completely erased everyone else he was interested in, including you.
I'm sorry for the way it turned out for you - but might have been a good idea to call him at some point during that three weeks.
2007-03-23 05:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ciaoenrico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibilities
1. He is not interested in you anymore
2. He heard something bad abt you from others
3. He has got a new gf
3. He has a gf and his gf found out about him flirting so he got to stop.
If you haven't given up on him yet, call him. YOu will get a definite answer.
2007-03-23 05:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres really no telling other than to ask the guy what happened. Maybe he's got another girl and he played like he didn;t know who you were for her sake.. who knows you could guess all day long. ASK HIM.
2007-03-23 05:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he tried out a few girls and didn't really think that you were right for him, it happens trust me. sometimes compliments could well and truly just be compliments
2007-03-23 05:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Cj : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he just forgot at particular moment or somebody else was there.
i m sure he will remember once u remind him.
2007-03-23 05:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋