My guy recently claims he has been busy with his games, he seldom contacts me nor spends time with me. And though often, his gaming sessions are around the vicinity where i always am, but he always doesnt make it a point to meet me. And i have told him how i felt, but he thinks im sensitive and so on.
As yesterday, i smsed him and flared up on him. He did not bother nor answers my calls,
Am i being too sensitive? should i apologize, try to talk to him... or just leave this relationship
2007-03-22 21:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by celticleaves 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on to someone who will appreciate you.
2007-03-22 21:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, his games are more important than his relationship to you. If you think that you can walk away without being hurt too much (or miss him too much,) then end it. But of course, you should tell him first how things stand for the moment. If he promises to change, then it might be a good idea to give him a second chance. See how it goes from there.
2007-03-23 04:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Dowland 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Offer to join his game.
If he declines, dump him.
If he accepts, play or learn about it, see how the people he is with behaves, for about oh 3 weeks to a month.
If they are all immature losers, dump him.
A lot of gamers are compulsive addicts in the extreme, and if you don't enjoy the hobby (either computers or dice), you are not gonna get any time with him.
Good luck. Seriously. I know many girls / women that have been in your situation. I am lucky my wife is so understanding to support my being away for one game a week, and I know it.
2007-03-23 04:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing really happened.
you flared up, and you calmed down later.
as far as that is concerned, he will have forgotten about it already so you should too.
he isn't going to change any time soon, so the problem for you is are you going to stick with him and hope things improve, or back off from contacting him and see if he notices, or just dump him. . ??
2007-03-23 05:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE HAS RESPONSIBILITIES, AND TRYING TO DO HIS BEST TO KEEP HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU AT THE SAME TIME. MEANWHILE, YOU SEEM TO ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF...DON'T WORRY, TYPICAL OF WOMEN ANYWAY...
LOOK AT THE BROAD PICTURE OF IT ALL AND MAYBE YOU WILL REALISE THAT IT JUST ISN'T IN THE CARDS FOR YOU TWO. YOU DESERVE BETTER, AND SO DOES HE. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, INSTEAD OF MOPING ABOUT IT. BETTER YET, GET IN BED AND I'LL READ YOU A STORY.
ONE THING I WON'T DO IS PAINT YOU A PRETTY PICTURE. I CALL IT AS I SEE IT
2007-03-23 04:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on. There's someone out there that actually wants to spend time with you and you deserve someone like that.
2007-03-23 04:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by RIffRaffMama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is over go on with your life girl call him and tell him that and if he cares about you he will try to stop you an dmake up for all the lost time
2007-03-23 04:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Save your pride and walk away.
2007-03-23 04:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by celianne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk face to face to him. if he flares up again. it's no point.
2007-03-23 04:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by croWnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him
2007-03-23 04:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Vns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋