My boyfriend has pulled away from me due to the stress at work. He has been looking for a new job, attending different interviews,he works full-time and goes to interviews during lunch time, he spends his evenings preparing for them. He has been very distant with me and he did explain to me that he will be like this for a while as he needs to sort himself out as he is really unhappy with his current job. His boss refused to promote him so he was really upset with that. He sent me a message yesterday after not hearing from him for a few days, I was happy. I replied to him but I really wanted to ask him when are we going to meet up. So I asked him if we can meet during Easter, he said that he is going home to see his family. I asked him to meet the weekend after, he said he is going again to see his family as his dad has birhtday. So I asked him about the weekend after and he replied with I don't know, we will see... What should I do now? I haven't responded to that but I feel so sad.
2007-03-22 21:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please HELP to settle him.. Don't push too hard for his attention. He has priorities and it is his career now.. not you.. Give him time to find a new job which he likes. He sounds like a responsible person.. So, just support him and tell him that you are always there for him.. He will be back for you.
2007-03-22 21:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi elisa n,
i feel sorry about ur b/f. he is already troubled by his own problems. so do not worry him more. give time to him. let him relax. love is not everything in life. there are other factors also to look after. so have patiens. enjoy the life!
2007-03-23 04:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A careers concellor can help him sort out problems related to work.....they can give us direction and what is possibly best for us to pursue....
2007-03-23 04:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be avoiding you. Stop asking him for a while and see what happens.
2007-03-23 04:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very cautious... he may be cheating instead of being so "stressed out" with work...
2007-03-23 04:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if u are really impt. to him cuz if ur really impt 2 him den he would most likely want 2 meet u eventhough he is really very busy..... ^_^
2007-03-23 04:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by zZz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating
2007-03-23 04:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by my_chem_42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋