just tell me what you will do if your spouse asks you to
2007-03-22 21:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by Alan f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally, I am not all that into the "porn" scene.
But its a fact that most men look at porn, and although you may think its a bit twisted for me to say that. But I think your husband is being very sweet. (if you think of it from a mans point of view)
Most men look at porn, your husband rather share it with you, then look at it alone. Hes trying to bring you into his fantasies. And I think that is much better then, sneaking it somewhere like other men. Yes its other women in there. But he wants you in on the experience, and I mean what more you could ask for. Your even part of your husbands fantasies. When he could easily just get off on other women, he still wants you. I think its about as sweet as men get unknowlingly. (but again maybe thats my twisted opinion)
If it makes you uncomfortable, you could always just tell him no, your sorry its not something your into.
And if you dont know how you feel, I would try it and see if you like it. And if you dont, then atleast you know. But it could be away to spice of your sex life.
Ive done it before, its a nice spicer upper. But not on a regular bases.
Oh and if you do decide to give it a try, there is a how to buy porn guide on the interent, that recommends some tasteful ones for couples. We got the Priates of the Carribean one, and we ended up laughing our butts off for the most part.
2007-03-22 22:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 17:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its in a way good to watch porn with ur spouse rathjer than letting him watching it all alone. u see, when he's there with u n watching porn, he'll be imagining about u n would crave for u more. thats a good point..! n it also gives a little spice in ur sex life as well.. i would encourage u to do it but if u don't like it, then just tell him. after all he's ur husband rite? i would rather watch with him than letting him watch it alll by himself. i get jealous! hahaha. good luck gal!
2007-03-22 22:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by ~ sya ~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My immediate question would be:"Why??"
If its to add a new element within our sex life, I'll say ok, but if he cant come up with a valid answer he might just end up in the dog box.
Don't get me wrong, porn can turn me on, but my hubby must have a good reason why.
2007-03-22 23:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't.But that's just me.Some women like to watch with they're spouses,but I think it's degrading to women.I get upset if my husband watches porn anyway.Hope this helps in some way.
2007-03-22 22:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by electrichuedini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No........NO WAY. As he should respect your opinion- But it should only be fair that you allow him to watch them in the privacy of the bedroom- Men will always be men- There's so much porn directed at the male market - but I can say I havent seen any directed at females-It goes to show how different we truely are!
2007-03-22 22:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by hayles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is fair. It is also a useful tool for couples who are in a rut and just need to spice things up a bit. Better that he want to watch with his wife, than sit in some sleazy club paying for lap dances or going out and actually cheating on her.
2007-03-22 23:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will watch the movie with him. I think there is nothing wrong if the two of you are married.
2007-03-22 23:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kache 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch them. Let your imagination go wild and have some raw, animal sex. Yeah!
2007-03-22 22:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by endlessknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be all that interested. But you're gonna get various opinions.
2007-03-22 22:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋