So i've been hanging out with these people for about 2 years now, and in the beginning it was awesome, but then they started making fun of me. But not just making fun of me, they'd litterally bring me to tears, never in front of them but in private. I started to put up a wall and now that i have they say they dont want drama and i guess they think i bring drama so they dont really talk to me when i'm with them anymore. should i try to be friends with them again, or be alone and forget about them?
2007-03-22 21:59:53 · 10 answers · asked by PoeticPieces 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why are you allowing these people to make fun of you? Only YOU can make yourself feel bad. But if these so called friends are making fun of you not ina joking way, you need to stand up to them. They are doing it and doing it all the time, cause you are allowing them to do so. You need to tell them that you are not taking it anymore. Or just stop being friends with them and find new friends. No one needs to be around crappy people who aren't really friends with them. Life is too short to be crying all the time. Get some happy people in your life. These people you are talking about ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. They pretend to be so they can make fun of you. Next time, tell them you don't like them talking to you like that and walk off, or leave.. Whatever works. Find new friends.
2007-03-23 02:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. There is no fault on blame here.
You didn't like how they treated you. You built a wall. They stopped treating. One thing lead to another. Are you and do you bring drama?? and So what. That is not the real issue. The wall is the issue with them. Your issue is the reason you built the wall. Take a look , a close look at your friends. are they truly your friends?? Having open conversation without being judge for how feel and being accepted for who you are is a question you need to ask your self. If they weren't aware of how they made you feel, by making fun, then how would they know. The old saying, if a friend cant say it, then who can.
Express your feeling and tell them you don't like it.If they are mean spirited when making fun, then don't waste your time.But it they sre just having fun at your expense, talk talk talk.
2007-03-23 05:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it may seem to be alone, you will probably be a lot better off without them. True friends do not treat you like that. Friends don't make fun of someone to the point that it makes them cry in private. Good luck on what you decide to do and remember all you need is one true friend!
2007-03-23 05:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by awoman8559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually had the same problem like yours when I was in high school. It had been ok at first but then they started doing or saying nasty things. It wasn't funny but I laugh at myself with them but when there's no one around, I'd cry.
So what I did was talk to them and I found out that that was how they treat their friends. I didn't like their style and so I moved on and found some other friends. I the world is so big and there are moany people around waiting for you to be their friend. I guess you have to find some people who will truly respect you.
2007-03-23 05:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Angel F. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie focus... whatever they are they are not your friends. People that are your friends will not mess with your mind enough to make you have to repeatedly go off to cry. If you are still hanging out with them it is not because you still care about them but because you are filled with fear about the difficulties of making new friends. Fear the letters in fear stand for
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You can make friends, ones who will treat you with dignity and respect. Don't let false evidence keep you from knowing the true joy of s haring experiences with true friends. Good luck and get a move on the time to get going was yesterday. Move on.
2007-03-23 05:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from anyone who has little regard for your feelings. They say they don't like "drama", but knowingly put you through the same thing. Don't force yourself to accept something that inwardly hurts you. That's not good for your self-reliance or your self-esteem. Friends don't do that to other friends. Forget about them & of the anguish they have caused you.
2007-03-23 05:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gone through hell.. You must have learnt some valuable lessons during the last 2 years.
Make a complete break.. Change your life style.. Meet better friends and go forward in your life..
2007-03-23 05:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i really dont understand ur problem.. but i do understand dat u r feelin depressd.. wat is it dat they do which hurts u?
well.. ask thm y they hurt u so..ask thm 2 stop it.. if they refuse, i feel the world is populous enuf dat u can find another frnd dat is supportive and sensitive enuf.. i really understand how terrible u must b feelin... try making new frnz.. go 2 sum diffrnt and new hangout place and make frnzz...
best of luck and love 4 ur life ahead.. i hope u get the rite kinda frnzz soon..
2007-03-23 05:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by liferocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop being friends with them. It doesn't mean you will be alone. Make friends with ones who respect you.
Wish you good luck!
2007-03-23 05:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tazo m?m m?m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best when u get away from the people who take u for granted
u will get a million friends
forget about them!! it may be a bit difficult but u should
never lose hope and never ever cry for silly people !!!
2007-03-23 05:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋