So my girlfriend really isn't a morning person but she is short with me in the morning. How do i tell her that i am getting sick of her being short with me in the morning?
2007-03-22 21:31:57 · 10 answers · asked by lb_surferman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been with my husband for years and he is always cranky when he wakes up... always. It annoys the heck out of me every day but I have learned to not even talk to him until noon. I may make him some coffee but I will not attempt to discuss what needs done, ask how he is, etc. In fact, he has learned to set his alarm, get up, take a shower, come downstairs, kiss me on the cheek and walk out the door. That is the extent of our morning because he is such a grump. By noon, he's back to normal.
Sorry you're going through this too.,
2007-03-22 21:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by TrixyLoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should talk to her about it, but the way you approach the discussion is very important! Approach her about it when she is in a good mood (not the morning), and acknowledge the fact that maybe there is a possibility that she is short with you because you are doing something to irritate her as well.
Try saying something like this, "It hurts my feelings when you get so irritated with me in the morning. Am I doing something that bothers you?" Then, if you are doing something that bothers her, you can both talk about it and get it out in the open. If not and she is just crabby, then she'll probably realize that she has been acting like a jerk and will be more likely to be better in the future. Whatever you do, don't take the first person's advice. Being that direct is just blunt and rude. She'll feel attacked which will probably make her even more short with you.
2007-03-22 21:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by engineergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
first u find out why ur gf is cranky in the morning.dont ask her directly. it may b ur gf is not an early. 1 morn wen u meet her giv her flowers and say "baby i luv u i cant get my eyes away from u. i always want u to b close 2 me.you look really beautiful in the morning. i hav so much to say but i cant coz u are not urself in the morn u r cranky and it spins my head can u plz stop it ?". all the best
2007-03-22 22:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by rani b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone complained to me about me being angry that I have to get up too early and I'm grumpy. Then I'd ***** slap them to next year. And if they said it during the morning.... I cannot be held responsible for my actions.
2007-03-22 21:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By stopping living with her like a pig. "Girlfriends" are not for mornings. Wives are for mornings.
2007-03-22 21:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"I'm getting sick you being short in the morning" <----Straight up my friend.
2007-03-22 21:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Susy Li 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of us do not like to verbalize in the morning. back off
2007-03-22 21:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by sjdelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone in the morning! everyone's aloud to be grumpy sometimes, expecially in the morning, if you dont like how she is in the morning, dont-talk-to-her-in-the- morning!
2007-03-22 21:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she sleep well...she may be feeling tired...she may be sleeping very little....or other stressful day to day activities...talk to her....
2007-03-22 21:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody is different .......they all cant be in a good mood in the morning.,.....................take it like it is
2007-03-22 21:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋