He's super, but I have to maintain my sanity. This girl is trying to come between us even thought she has her own boyfriend. Why won't she just mind her own business? He tells me to stand up to her and be strong. He tells her that I know what he and I have together. We call each other Baby and it goes right through her. She threatened to beat me up if I didn't stop. She's "sick of me"...How does she think I feel? I came home nauseous tonight after an altercation with her.
2007-03-22 21:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He likes the attention of women fighting over him.
His friend is a fighter. You aren't He wants you to fight back.
Tell him, "I'm done. You're a loser. If you can't respect me more, I don't want to know you."
The fact that she has a boyfriend of her own doesn't matter. Some women crave attention from multiple guys.
Call her up, Tell her, "You win. Are you satisfied? He's all yours now."
In a week, your guy will call you up, asking you back since he's no challenge now to his old friend.
Don't fall for it.
You seem like a kind spirit. Find someone who is also kind, strong, and a real man, not a teenager in men's clothes.
Seriously.
Good luck.
2007-03-22 21:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should never walk away from something good over someone else's insecurities. If she has a problem with it, let it be just that, HER problem. If on the other hand he is not stepping in to put this girl in her place then maybe ur better off without someone like that in ur life.
2007-03-23 04:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y are u scared of her!!! have the guts to face the girl and do whateva u think is right for ur protection but y run away from the situtation...u r not weak if she threatens u u can always lodge the complaint against her...!!! ur running away from the situation will make her wish come true of separating u from ur boyfriend....and it will be ur loss and her gain!! so be brave and face her!!u would be proud in the end for standing out for urself!
2007-03-23 04:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it is not your responsibility to fight with her. If anything it sounds more like he should be the one to tell her to stick her nose somewhere else.
If your relationship is strong, it will last no matter what others say. If others can sway your relationship, you aren't with the right person.
Talk to him and make sure he knows how uncomfortable you are about her - and see what if anything he has to say about it.
2007-03-23 04:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he has the problem. If he cares about you he needs to tell her where to go and when. If he is to weak to that then you need to move on. Good luck
2007-03-23 04:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Froggy_45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope she is not teasing u, or else she is sick.
talk to her bf and may be he can take care of her.
2007-03-23 05:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋