Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

2007-03-22 19:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by d p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 19:36:15 · 6 answers · asked by deviyani 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf is a 26 yr. old turkish guy, he's a very kind and sensitive guy and not to mention he's more conservative than me.we havent meet yet..i mean personally but we do keo updates on each other for almost two years now..he calls me 4 times a day and we send each other mail 6 times a week..i've met he's parents and brothers thru webcams and so does he.Marriage plans is he's favorite topic and he decided to come here in manila to meet me and my family.I think he's taking things too fast and i just want to hold him back.Should i tell him to take things one at a timeand hold on a bit so we can trully know each other personally?

2007-03-22 19:34:22 · 15 answers · asked by ginnywes18 1 in Singles & Dating

I was living with this one girl that I been seeing for about 5 months and recently she moved in but she such a b**** and i cant stand her at first it was ok cuz ill let it go but she has gottenon my nerves I dont knwo waht to do cuz i really love her but I really dont think that kind of relationship is healthy if we are having fights all the time for no apparent reason I dont want to loose her but I think I already did but i dont think i should beg cuz she has done so many things to me like braking up with me and going to F*** some other guys , what i think is doing everything she has done to me so we could be even and then once we are even Ill beg her but man this is too much too explain everything but what would you guys do or think??????

2007-03-22 19:34:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know how to fight! I dont want people saying go to a teacher... How do you fight? what are some good fighting tips? How can I beat the crap out of this kid because she ruined my life? I've never got in a fight before so how can I beat her so it actually hurts? Help!

2007-03-22 19:33:41 · 5 answers · asked by SmexyAAF!!! 1 in Friends

i've got so much hair on my arms and my legs ( im a guy ) and i really hate it cuz i can never go swimming or wear a t-shirt...
i have used nair , but they really suck and i dont like shaving cuz it takes so much time, my new idea is to colour them,
a colour liike the colour of my skin ...what do u think about this idea?
thanx

2007-03-22 19:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

I recently got my first rejection and it really hurts....anyone know how to get rid of this feeling?

And to save you trouble the MOVE ON thing doesn't work for me =P Cause i still have feelings for her...

2007-03-22 19:29:37 · 14 answers · asked by A Nob0dy. 1 in Singles & Dating

It can be something bought, or homemade... or even just an idea for a date. I just want to surprise him.

2007-03-22 19:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by Carrie 6 in Singles & Dating

im being targetted for old revenge,because of one of my family members mistake.
some say im home-breaker,some say im proud,some say im desperate.im having sleepless nights from many months.my health was very delicate.i could have died in june,if not for my friends and some well-minded professors support.im sensitive.all this is very tough for me.
please be kind and dont be prejudiced in judging me from recent happenings.i seek help from my professors and my seniors,colleagues in my college,who have been observing me for 5 yrs.
im normal ,sane..i believe in myself.i never harmed anyone intentionally .im decent girl from decent family.

2007-03-22 19:28:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are they flirting? Are they secret lovers?
If a guy and a girl are slap fighting, is that flirting?
Then he ran over and kicked her swiftly in the butt. It looked like something I did in 7th grade. She's 18 and he's 20. What is going on here? Are they flirting? Are they secret lovers? She's the one who's super jealous of me! Then she said he wouldn't talk to her all day because I was there. But in reality, he hadn't talked to me because he'd been "fussing" with her all day. He was tring to speak to me when suddenly he needed to "kick her azz". Then he came back an apologized to me for letting her interrupt. I said I forgive him since he kicked her and she needed her butt kicked....in my opinion!

So which of the two females is he "interested" in... me or her?

2007-03-22 19:28:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she always says im her best friend and tonight she invited some people over and then rubbed it in my face while i got yelled at by mom for not going to soccer because i didnt feel well...like she is really bad about this kind of stuff

2007-03-22 19:28:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do I do? I was just in a normal conversation and my gut just told me to do it, she didnt act awkward but it was on the phone, I see her tommorow and What if she acts all weird and our friendship messes up? Heeeeelp.

2007-03-22 19:28:27 · 16 answers · asked by A Nob0dy. 1 in Singles & Dating

John, a guy i work with told me that david has a crush on me. And i asked.. how do u no, and hes like.. i no these things, were guys, we talk about this stuff. so i asked, has he actually sed that he likes/has a crush on me. and he said no. but he asked him ' man u wanna hit that' and he never says no.

So i duno

2007-03-22 19:28:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy and I have been dating for six months. I told him a few weeks ago that I was in love with him...he said that while he had feelings of love for me...he wasn't in love with me at this point...but felt the day may come. So this week the subject of a future together came up...he said he wasn't sure yet if I was "the one".....and perhaps since he didn't know yet that maybe that means I'm not the one....we both agreed that we didn't want to stop seeing each other...and nothing has really changed....we eat dinner together usually every night...on the nights he has his son...he brings him to.....he sleeps at my house every night when his son isn't home....I help him at his business a few hours each week day--at his request. The sex is fabulous--the friendship strong--we talk and communicate--we don't argue or fight--we have a good thing going on...he says he doesn't think anything is wrong with me..he thinks I'm a great catch...he said he needs to examine his expectations....???

2007-03-22 19:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 19:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by bitch 1 in Singles & Dating

What are my chances of meeting a beautiful girl that I could date and possibly have a family with? I keep my hair cropped short, dress youthful and fashionable, and I am physically fit. But, I feel as though I have passed my prime, and I am not interested in a woman my own age simply because I don't find most women my age attractive. I feel as though my profession does not attract attractive women. Don't get me wrong. I am not looking for trophy wife or beauty queens - just a sexy, slender, intelligent, and creative woman that wants a relationship. Is it hopeless?

2007-03-22 19:26:57 · 7 answers · asked by michel s 1 in Singles & Dating

Now I think I got dissed b/c I was teasn him. Why dont like teasn they will eventually get it anyway!!!!

2007-03-22 19:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

it gets me confused... after so many years, my first love came back but were both committed with someone else... but that person admits that still has feelings for me.. and i think i feel the same way... is ti because what we had before was left unended? or is it really first love that nver dies?

2007-03-22 19:25:50 · 9 answers · asked by sky 1 in Singles & Dating

I was abused when I was 9 & raped everyone knows BUT my dad. He is NOT in the best of health. We are very close but this is the only thing that I've NEVER told him. The reason I'm thinking of this now is my niece was raped 2 yrs ago & she has been talking to me abt it BUT my dad told me not to get involved! I know what she is going through & want to help but at the same time feel like I'm letting my dad down because I promised him I would stay out of it! I don't know what to do! He never knew or met the a$$hole!! He is the oldest living male in his family!! He knows that it happened to my sister but the "family secret is my secret." 5 yrs ago he had a stroke & heart attack & we alost lost him & I remember that I never told him what happened & I felt bad for keeping the secret since we are so close. I don't know what to do I'm afraid that if I do it will kill him (I'm the baby of the family) but on the other hand I feel like I'm lying to him since everyone else knows but him!!

2007-03-22 19:25:13 · 9 answers · asked by Missy 3 in Family

A thirty year old man (Mikey) is having a relationship with a 15 year old. hes got her so manipulated so where she won't love and loves no one but him. I love her more then anybody yet she doesn't care after she met him.

I reported him to child protection agencies such as the National Center for Missing and exploited children. I know Mikey is only interested in having sex with my best friend.

I love her, and have feelings for her. I feel like Shes not meant to be with Mikey. Heck hes twice her age.

Then I reported him again after MySpace took off his account (Mikeys victim told me his account got hacked. It wasn't hacked just tooken of cause hes a pedophile).

Now chat detectives are after me and trying to record my conversations like I'm a net criminal. What the f*** is going on here.

Heres the log:

Seriously - do us all a favor and unplug your computer now!



Why is he getting the chat detectives after me?

2007-03-22 19:24:29 · 2 answers · asked by BtAlex 1 in Singles & Dating

SERIOUSLY! People take pictures of me just walking down the sidewalk, I used to be flattered by it. And then I got a big head about it...Now its a little scary!

I think my bf is getting jealous of the attention, and I will do anything for him, I even converted for him. I don't want to lose him but I can't help that random people are taking photos of me!

2007-03-22 19:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by Gail Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

I'd have to say.....Kate Beckinsale!!!!!!

2007-03-22 19:23:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really never go outside but if I did ever where I go I think people are looking at me and laughing and stairing/pointing and think am wierd or different and I cant look at anyone in the face alwes have my head down and feel awkward in crowds like I dont belong there I alwes think my cloths are all wrong and look stupid while everyone else has really nice cloths nice hair and everything I dont in my opinion and am 15 by the way.. am a guy also and this sucks I already am not going to school since I didn't want to go to highschool. Know what I do all day is usually watch TV in my room play video games online I think I have technology addiction another reason outside sucks. I don't even want to go to the doctor or anything for medicine. People alwes asking if I have a girlfriend and stuff thats embaressing all the day because what the hell do you think it looks like.. what I do?

2007-03-22 19:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by Zach 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 19:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by We tell it like it is. 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, not being in love of course. When do men decided they had enough of a woman?

2007-03-22 19:21:20 · 6 answers · asked by kate 4 in Singles & Dating

I was discussing this with my mom earlier.... are there people out there that could still look at a young couple (18-22ish) and not instantly think they're rushing things.Why is it suddenly so unacceptable for this to occur. My parents married at 20... and they've been together for 22 years so obviously not all end in disaster?

what do you think about it? would you be quick to judge, or have a little faith and hope that the couple will work out?

2007-03-22 19:20:56 · 27 answers · asked by LoveisfirE 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok is s.e.x important? is it something needed when there is a relationship thats being going on for 1 year.

2007-03-22 19:20:14 · 22 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my ex and i broke up about 7 weeks ago and after we broke up we decided to stay friends but we ended up kissin everytime we saw each other. We talked about gettin back together but neither of us thought it was a good idea. A few weeks passed and another guy came into the picture, one she ended up falling for but they are unable to have a relationship cause they can barely see each other. Anyways once she told me this we decided to just be friends and nothin more. So then I leave for a weekend and i dont call or text her, suddenly she calls me and flirts with me and everything. We met up and things were fine and fun and we end up kissing, after this everytime we meet up we end up making out and she flirts with me alot and everything. I'm afraid I'm starting to fall for her again. Should I pursue this despite the possibility that she may still like the other guy or should I just forget it and call it quits?

2007-03-22 19:18:32 · 11 answers · asked by Froggie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 19:17:40 · 18 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Friends

I have been seeing this guy for a about 3 wks I am really feelin him hard. We talk openly about everything (?) We hang out. He said he is feelin me but I have been holdn out b/c I dont want to rush. Tonight things got heated and he took me home, he was tryn damn near beggn but I told him that I wanted to wait... he told me that he would call me when he got hm and he didn't which is diff. for him he calls me all the time, lets me know where he is goin/doin whatever so I was shocked 2 C when he didnt call. I called him he didnt answer the ph. I know how guys hate rejection. He think I am a tease and I admit I was teasin him b4 he took me hm so he was pretty erect. Do u think he is mad at me? mad enough to talk 2 me again. I am kinda upst bout it not that I didnt give it up but that mayb I shouldnt have teased him like that. What do u think?

2007-03-22 19:17:07 · 1 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating