Ok so my ex and i broke up about 7 weeks ago and after we broke up we decided to stay friends but we ended up kissin everytime we saw each other. We talked about gettin back together but neither of us thought it was a good idea. A few weeks passed and another guy came into the picture, one she ended up falling for but they are unable to have a relationship cause they can barely see each other. Anyways once she told me this we decided to just be friends and nothin more. So then I leave for a weekend and i dont call or text her, suddenly she calls me and flirts with me and everything. We met up and things were fine and fun and we end up kissing, after this everytime we meet up we end up making out and she flirts with me alot and everything. I'm afraid I'm starting to fall for her again. Should I pursue this despite the possibility that she may still like the other guy or should I just forget it and call it quits?
2007-03-22 19:18:32 · 11 answers · asked by Froggie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is NO SUCH THING as just friends between guys and girls, and your situation is proof to my point. I am also not an advocate of getting back together with old relationships, and I dont know how old you are, but im guessing you are too young to be tied down to one girl anyway. My vote is play the field, if you are going to wuss out and start getting feelings for this girl again then I think it is for the best to cut off contact, but if you think you can keep it cool you might as well have fun with her while you are still looking for others. Also, it is my opinion that she is just keeping you around until she finds someone else. Example, the guy that she already "fell for". She is playing the field and leaving you hanging, so you should do the same thing. Notice that when you didnt call her for a while she got nervous and tried to pull you back in. It is all a game for her, she doesnt really like you, she just likes having someone around and you are the convinient one for not until she meets someone else. I've seen it a million times, and it happened to me so dont let her pull you into her trap. Girls hate being alone, and if she is attractive she has low self esteem so she is keeping you around to boost her ego as much as anything. Move on dude, trust me, you will thank me later.
2007-03-22 19:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ray G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 03:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why did you guys break up in the first place? Just remember those reason and think about if you want to get into that again... I dont know how long you were together but it sound like since, she was hittin on you, then the other guy, now you again... that she was just used to being in a relationship that now that she's single she just wants to be loved... by anyone! I'd say follow your gut and your heart!
2007-03-22 19:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by js95116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like from what you described that she still has feelings for you but is not ready to committ--if she is having feelings for another guy but just can't see him because they barely see each other then it sounds like she returns to you when she wants attention. In my opinion I would take a break from this--if it was truly meant to be she will come back to you. Otherwise don't waste time when you could find someone that knows what they want and you can have the relationship you deserve. Good luck!!
2007-03-22 19:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up in the first place? Be a free agent for a while maybe you will meet someone better for you. And if you don't you can always jsut meet up with the ex for some kissy face.
2007-03-22 19:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by charbarski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, she is trying to have the cake and eat it too.
She knows you like her and want her back so she is playing with your emotions.
Be free enjoy your own time alone and i would advise not to see her again until you know your 100% over her. Good Luck :)
Dont worry be happy
2007-03-22 19:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An X is an X for a reason.. RUN!!!! sheesh... what grade in Jr high are you in again? just curious...
Lemme look in my crystal ball.. i see 3 x wives in yer future.. say good by to all yer stuff.. sheesh
2007-03-22 19:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u both need to decide whether u want to give the rlshp another chance. if so then she cant see this new guy anymore. if not then u both need to move on and no more kissing and stuff
2007-03-22 19:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her, just move on with your life before you start to fall for her again. she's just as confused with her feelings as you are. she's flirting w you maybe bcoz she misses the times you're together
2007-03-22 19:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by tangerine b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lisen man, i dont care why you broke up i dont care who did what, you 2 still are crazy for each other, ask her out again, try and fix what you lost,if it dose work out , well you have a friend with benefits my man, then, well, lifes good
2007-03-22 19:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by justin glenn Aka Duo Maxwell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋