What are my chances of meeting a beautiful girl that I could date and possibly have a family with? I keep my hair cropped short, dress youthful and fashionable, and I am physically fit. But, I feel as though I have passed my prime, and I am not interested in a woman my own age simply because I don't find most women my age attractive. I feel as though my profession does not attract attractive women. Don't get me wrong. I am not looking for trophy wife or beauty queens - just a sexy, slender, intelligent, and creative woman that wants a relationship. Is it hopeless?
2007-03-22 19:26:57 · 7 answers · asked by michel s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bald guys are sexy...Theres someone out there for you
2007-03-22 19:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
man, I had thinning hair at the age of 22. My life up until then in the ladies department went pretty well. I always knew that I had a good personality and confidence. When I started getting thinning hair it knocked me down hard. I felt scared to go anywhere and felt embarassed. I had a unusual way of thinking on this, but I feel that guys with noticeable hair loss look totally stupid with the rest grown out and a big patch missing so I shaved my head. And I do mean completely razor shaved. I still struggled with wanting to wear a hat around but then I got a job wear I couldn't wear it to work. Then it happened....I fit in perfectly with everyone and the first day I heard a couple of women who I snuck up behind started talking about me. The thing was that it wasn't bad. They were saying that they thought bald men were sexy. After a few months my confidence came back. I have a lot of people tell me it looks cool. I am not sure why but chicks digs my shaved head. Now I am not telling you this to get you to shave your head. For one you have to have a good shaped head and it is my opinion that it looks better if you are in shape. But anyway....back to my job....there are quite a few guys who are balding way worse than I am and I was like you as far as observing their luck with women. One guy probably even helped me without even talking to me. I just watched when he got around girls and the most surprising thing was he was making them laugh and having a blast with them. That was really the thing I learned with this. So what am I doing? Just being myself....seriously. Man you just need your confidence back. Funny thing is that I married a hot school teacher! Seriously! I been happily married for 3 years. Good luck and just be yourself...you will be surprised what you can do!
2007-03-23 03:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by LanternPrime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the crowd. Many men, married and otherwise, find themselves in this spot. Signs of aging are a real wake up call. I think you would be surprised how many women are looking for someone just like you. If your school work does not bring you into contact with the right women, then go where they are. Go to night school. Community College classes are loaded with women who are single and feeling much like you. Good Luck
2007-03-23 02:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, first i suggest you go to a hair salon or hair treatment facility and have your hair treated. this would add up to your youthful look. and go beyond your usuall boundary to meet up some women. like go to crowded place. you'll have a greater chance of meeting some women you'll be attracted with
2007-03-23 02:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by tangerine b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it's hopeless maybe if you went out more, tried going different places and put yourself in a new environment you will be able to meet new people... Good Luck!
2007-03-23 02:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mid life crisis?
2007-03-23 02:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible.
2007-03-24 18:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋