I was living with this one girl that I been seeing for about 5 months and recently she moved in but she such a b**** and i cant stand her at first it was ok cuz ill let it go but she has gottenon my nerves I dont knwo waht to do cuz i really love her but I really dont think that kind of relationship is healthy if we are having fights all the time for no apparent reason I dont want to loose her but I think I already did but i dont think i should beg cuz she has done so many things to me like braking up with me and going to F*** some other guys , what i think is doing everything she has done to me so we could be even and then once we are even Ill beg her but man this is too much too explain everything but what would you guys do or think??????
2007-03-22 19:34:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea like everyone else said LEAVE HER!! what a b***h! she doesn't even love you i bet! and probably she's going out tonight to get her groove on! i'm sure she is! but i want to advice you to look at your own flaws too.. she may be a mean to you but i'm sure you are not so nice to her either. look at both sides of the story. but honestly i don't see this relationship going anywhere so i'm telling you, don't ever call her again! it's over buddy. she left you for a reason!! oh well you don't want her anymore so she's gone!!
2007-03-23 04:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by gaby5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people when they go shopping they try on pants before they buy them to see if they like the way they fit.
Moving in together is pretty much the same thing. You learn lots of new things about people when you have to share a home with them.
I would say chalk it up to a bad pair of pants. At least now you know you don't really ever want to live with her so why go on. Quit wasting your time.
2007-03-23 02:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by agbridal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dood, I gotta say...I was just in a very similar situation/relationship with my ex bf. I lived with him, and with no real space/time away from each other-we soon saw each other's quirks and got under each other's skins. Not to say I was a real b*tch to him, but we BOTH gave each other headaches-we knew it. Like you, it was okay at first, but then everything got really bad. Our relationship wasnt healthy either b/c of our fights every week. I never did anything terrible like cheat, but jus probably was pouty (typical girl stuff)-but I think he was getting interested in another girl even when we were still together (considered emotional cheating?-perhaps-it was F'd up!!) Sounds like you know ur girl was for real cheating tho. Thats Fd up. He ended up breaking up wth me-but I think he is for sure pursuing to date this other chick. Messed up!! I have since just decided for myself I couldnt stay around that shiet!! The sooner I got outta there, the better. You should do yourself the same favor if she is cheating on your with anther dood.
2007-03-23 02:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with you and going off and f**king other guys?Was she living with you at the time?irregardless,that's not cool and no you don't want to beg,not one bit.Someone that does something like that needs to feel a bit of coolness from you.I'm not saying be a jerk to her,or be mean,just be aloof,a little cold and distance yourself a bit from her or she will run your a*s over like a freight train.Women can be very manipulative,cunning and game playing B*tches,shes testing you and you have to make it clear under no circumstances is she going to be inconsiderate and or disrespectful to you.Tell her what you expect from her and what you are willing to do for her to make this work See if she can meet you on middle grounds with something you both agree on.Also it takes to to tango so you need to take a good look at yourself and see what it is you can do to make this work as well.Good-Luck
2007-03-23 02:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't complicate your life even more than it is already. Be level with her. One on one serious talk. The relationship you have right now seems unhealthy and it seems to have started out unhealthy because of the slight animosity hinted in your statements. If you want to stay in a relationship like this, you must be prepared by getting things straight on what you want out of the relationship. Plain and simple - what do you want from her and what are you willing to do in order to maintain a balance?
2007-03-23 02:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dysire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her! if she bothers you that much then she should'nt be in your life. You should be with someone you really like and you can. why do you think you are not worthy of someone who really loves you? this might hurt, but she does not really love you and sounds like she is a miserable person to be cheating on you and braking up with you. she does'nt know what she wants. Find someone who is respectable and really loves you. good luck
2007-03-23 02:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, get out of it. Nobody wants to fight, fuss or argue all the time. And hell you said she's already been out cheating on you. Drop her. People will treat you as bed as you let them. Find the one that makes you happy and that you do get along with
2007-03-23 02:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by mundo808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship sounds extremely toxic and, no offense, immature. Let her go, play the field and if you decide to live with a girl again, do it with conviction, not half way.
2007-03-23 02:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by findingselflove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant live with someone then the relationship is over, think about this if you marry her will you not live with her? Btw if shes having sex with other men she clearly doesnt love you, I hope you use a rubber with her because STDS are on the rise.
2007-03-23 02:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by oneandonlyness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... I wouldnt stay with her I will tell you it is completely normal to fight after you first move in with someone.. you see a whole new side of them
2007-03-23 02:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by js95116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋