I like this girl alot and i think she likes me,,, her mum likes me but her dad doesnt like me becoz of my religion...
Wot do i do...?
Do i back away from her.. Before it gets too serious..
2007-03-22 22:46:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well First u ned to see what exactly u want. If you really like her then go for it in the same time u have to keep pros and cons in to consideration. Well countires like India even though it is moving towads strong econmy still people race against religion and caste is the biggest hurdle even today. Well i too fall for girl from different religion but i was lucky she was not indian other wise i have to go through same problem. Well but one thing also i would like to tell u whom ever u marry make sure u guys understand each other. All u can do is be nice to her father. Make sure u have a nice job or business what ever since ever father want to see his daughter married to a successful man and this thing u got to accept it. Ince sicnere advice do what its feel good for u dont take people advice since every one give u differeent one
Best of luck and wish u happy love life
2007-03-26 21:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by vikas_dellcomputers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y did god even created religion? We can't even love the other religion. Well, actually it's not a problem if u guys were dating. But u guys have to really understand each other's religion well cas sometimes there might b misunderstanding.
Just try to b a good friend to her first. Let her dad get to know you better and hopefully he changes his mind. =) All the best!
2007-03-22 22:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by priincessgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend first, be nice and polite with her family, maybe they will grow to like you. A lot of the ignorance and prejudice of the older generation comes from lack of knowledge. Patience will cement your connection with her and give the old parents a fair chance. If you guys are good friends and it blossoms in to love and the parent still want to be prejudiced after you have both given it you best try then go elope! But if you have not tried you best then you can not be justified in tearing her from her family. The key is you have to respect her by doing your best - above all respect HER values - if she is super religious and finds it a problem than you need to cease, if she loves you and does not care then by all means go forward!
2007-03-22 23:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting into a reln or turning away depends on how much u like the gul........if u really do love her, things likr religion shud not bother u.
2007-03-22 22:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage is all about agreement btwn the intending couple.Parent contribution is secondary.If she believes thesame thing with u,dont quit the parent will soon give up.
2007-03-22 23:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by timsol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1, Unless you're planning to marry her, then maybe you should get things sorted.
If you're just dating, I dont see why religion should be a factor
2007-03-22 22:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by whiteblaq 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Religion is not ment to be used as a measuring tool....
2007-03-22 22:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand u
but i think opion of ur parents or hers parents will never change
either u dont take this relation very serious or last way go beyond ur parents way of thinking
2007-03-22 22:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by sahi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEFORE STARTING THE LOVE YOU KNOW IT THAT SHE IS NOT OF YOUR RELIGION. NOW WHY YOU WANT TO RUN AWAY.
2007-03-26 01:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends where you are.. If you are in Asia, yes.. listen to your parents.. If you are in Arab Countries.. WATCH IT!! and if you are in Western or European nations.. go ahead...
2007-03-22 22:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋