we have been together for almost 2 years and everytime i am the one getting jealous, i dont try to make her jealous and than when i do i feel bad that i ever did it...she like kind of took control of the relationship in the past couple of months, she keeps getting everything her way! and also she is treated like a queen, literally like a queen, kind of spoiled her...what do i do now? how do i get out of it? thank you
2007-03-22 22:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by justanotherguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am also going to Europe for a vacation in May, staying for about a month? will this help me or her?
2007-03-22 22:46:09 · update #1
Spend more time on your other interests, and have fun doing it.
If she wants wants to catch the fly she will have to use some sugar to get it :)
2007-03-22 22:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Get out. You cannot win if that's her attitude.
Harsh? Yes. But picture yourself five years down the road. If you are still together, she will be walking all over you. Chances are better, though, that she will leave you before then because she doesn't think you're worth keeping around.
If you leave now, if nothing else, it will be a wake-up call for her. If she asks you back, you will have the control.
Of course, she might not ask you back - but better to get rid of her and find someone else who respects you than to be her doormat.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 22:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ciaoenrico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like you have no control over your life. The only reason she's getting her way is because you're letting her. Don't be so submissive. Speak up for yourself and don't let anyone run over you. Why would you want to make her jealous anyway? If you loved her you wouldn't want to hurt her like that. And if you seriously think she loves you and is trying to make you jealous then you have a lot of thinking to do when it comes to what kind of relationship you two are having. Because it sounds like it's not healthy. And the end result might end up being painful.
2007-03-22 22:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women hate to be ignored. Ignore her for awhile. Pretend like your real busy with your friends or just doing something thats bringing you fun without her. I bet she will go completely crazy.
2007-03-22 22:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to a girl when she's around but never answer when u'r girlfriend ask whom the girl is! just give her a smile and walk away from her.... till then wait for her reaction! just an idea! gud luck!
2007-03-22 22:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by fmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell all of the abive u haf said to her directly..face it bro...ask her whether she really loves u...if she does she wud realise her mistake soon...haizz...wen thru such a situation..not long ago...the bruises are still fresh...relationship..it jus gets tougher...but my advice and everyones basic advice wen it comes to misunderstanding in relationships,''you guys have to talk it out''
2007-03-22 23:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Boy_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy you are very nice, i wish i had someone like you.... that's what is called real love, some girl don't realize the how lucky they are, i think you should talk to her who are you to be treated like this tell her about the chance he has
2007-03-22 22:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by yurrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sleep with her sister, her friends, her mother, and her brother (just to experiment). Then rank her as a lover against all of them -- but don't be generous. No sir, don't be generous. She needs to be about 60% down the list. Let her know she has work to do. Yeah.
2007-03-22 22:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by jeffprobst4242 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Pay less attention, if she want's attention she needs to start contributing....
Don't make her jealous by purpose..
2007-03-22 22:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay less attention!
2007-03-22 22:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋