How to make-up after a rough time and you are at fault? QUICK!?

Question

Hi,

I need quick and easy to do suggestions to make up to my g/f after I made her feel not wanted and not cared about unknowingly. It all started with a talk over the phone on wed, and she guess from the tone of my voice that i didn't want to talk to her and that she bothered her and she felt like i didn't appriciate it. I had no intention of doing that or coming off like that. I was just tired since it was finals week so i was talking slow. I don't know if it's my fault or not, but I will take it as mine because i love her very much. At the moment, she's very hurt by this, and every since then there's been misunderstanding. I want to make it up to her since i will be seeing her tomorrow. I have 3 hours to do something cute and romantic. HELP!!!!

THANK YOU!

I told her sorry and apologized many times since then, but i guess it has hurt her really badly...

Answer 1

You know, you don't really need to get her anything, make her anything etc.

You need to just hug her and tell her you are so sorry that you upset her. The best thing you can give a girl who is upset is a hug and an apology.

Don't get into the habit of thinking presents solve everything. Open communication and honesty solves everything.

If she doesnt accept your apology, which should be enough, then forget it. What kind of girl won't accept a heartfelt apology but will take a flower? I don't get it. Either she accepts it and moves on or she doesn't. Either way, if she continues to dwell on it, then she is abusing you. if she loves you, she will get over you being tired during exam week.

Answer 2

Cook her something simple but nice for dinner if that is possible. Give her a hug, a kiss, a flower from your garden (if you have one) and a huge "I'm Sorry" and she will come around. Like you said it was just a mis understanding. She should understand that. Maybe she has issues going on with her she has not talked to you about yet. Ask her if everything is OK with her in her life outside you. Communicate. Have a great night and spend some time with her. Talk to her. Relax. Everything will be OK.