2007-03-22 21:01:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a college educated successful and down right nice woman. I am not into material things and I am a fan of letting a man be a man in a relationship. I have tried dating sites and been set up a few times, but I cant seem to find a guy who is sincere and can get past the looks. Now mind you I have a cute face and I am very happy with my weight. I am not going to change a thing about myself to attract a man. I am actually a fat girl who is comfortable being fat and I just wamt a man who can appreciate that love all of me.
2007-03-22 21:21:36 · update #1
honey take your time , one will pop up when you least expect it too .
2007-03-30 06:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when we are looking for love we simply wont find it. Please try and fill your time with hobbies you enjoy and trust me in saying love will come to you when you least expect it. As for being on the larger side so what? Surely you would like to be with a man who loves you and your personality? No point in being with an idiot who loves your body only. What kind of relationship would that be? Not a good base for a relationship. There are some good men out there who do love large woman. Black or white or any colour. That should not make a difference. So chin up mate live your life, enjoy yourself and let love come to you naturally.
2007-03-31 03:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find them, simply post what you're looking for in all the free singles dating sites on the internet. In about two hours you'll have 150 e-mails to sort through all begging to meet you. Most will be junk, people living in Egypt, or fetishists who want a one night stand, or whatever... but there will be some sincere replies in there too.
2007-03-23 04:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can attract someone for a short time with our charm and beauty but the real magnet of ours is our personality which comprises of good genuine behavior, etiquettes and sense of honor for deserving people.
Beauty to you was God gifted, think of what you have added to it in terms of down-to-earth attitude, being respectful to people, enduring and nourishing relationships because they valuable indeed.
I am sure, that you have all these the beauty that is God gifted and Personality that is self endured. All you need is someone for you and you will find someone soon. Just be a little more open to people and a little more approachable. Thanks.
2007-03-23 04:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he have to be white? don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with it . I feel like whats going on (smile) one of my good friends is dating a white guy and they act like teenagers in love for the very first time girlfriend they are trippin real hard but i guess its all good. me myself I have never been attracted to a white guy accept lately I have been paying attention to them just to figure out whats the hype Ive noticed that they do take a second look at me I never noticed that before they speak and I'm shocked I'M starting to notice their skin and hair (girl I don't know about all this) I'm not going there but you just make sure you are happy and he makes you feel beautiful you sound like a fun person so just be patient and let him find you. my cousin just married a white guy asked her why(smile ) she started laughing until she started crying she said i had the craziest look on my face girl I just cant do it but you go ahead girl have some fun you , my cousin,and my good friend . please just be happy ! just thought i would share my thoughts on the subject .
2007-03-31 03:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lovie dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have it figured out. And unfortunately most guys aren't attracted to heavy girls, even if they are fat and out of shape. Such a double standard too. Maybe you can work on your diet and lost weight. It seems the weight is causing you a lot of insecurity. Good luck.
2007-03-31 01:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you can. I think white men can just be timid. Being white and loving all kinds of women, i find a lot of white guys afraid to step out of their race, not saying they dont want to because plenty do. Dont be shy,, give these guys a signal and yu might be surprised. I know plent of men who love full figured women, they make better lovers and normally have better hearts.
2007-03-23 04:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by necktie7777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love is psychological and sex is straight physics.
Force = mass X acceleration.
If you have waaaay too much mass moving wayyyy too quickly, that will be a recipe for disaster.
Yes, big girls need love too, but you need to find an equally BIG and I mean BIG man to handle all of that mass.
Tough words, but it is true.
2007-03-23 04:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by DaMan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why a white man ? Surely if your lookin for love it shouldnt matter ?! you sound like a great girl so just wait and it will happen !! if it doesnt Email me !!!!! ps im white lol
2007-03-31 01:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by craig.barron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be that which you would like to attract. You will find someone who is of like-mind, but is he going to fit your expectations?
For example, a guy who likes to stay in shape and goes to the gym is not going to be attracted to someone who is overweight and doesn't take care of themself in the same ways. That's why I say, be that which you would like to attract.
2007-03-23 04:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Pallas 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to be the aggressor on that one. I bet if you started striking up conversations, flirting, and handing out the digits, you'd start seeing results.
2007-03-23 04:08:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋