I'm 26 years old male. I have a love life for almost 7 years old. We (me and my girlfriend) have reached an opinion that we should marry. But we have found some difficulties that her parents is not comfortable with our relationship and we don't want hurt them by getting married without their permission. (my parents are comfortable with her ). Her parents are professors and they expected that their son in law will be also a professor. But that is not my career. I'm an architect and working in a well reputed consulting firm and earning well to get married. I love her very much but these difficulties make our relationship uncomfortable. She will end up this relationship if her parents say a firm no. I want her to be happy by any reason.
2007-03-22 21:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by Isstiaque 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dear i know someone like your case he face her family and his family because he want her and now they engaged and want to get married even his family don't like her but what they can do.. it's faith.. she must to face her family, she will get married not them so they must to care about the person not what he doing... dear go with your g.f with your love to her and face her family put them in real life, and tell them we will engaged we love each other so we must to marry we can't still like that.. dear i know it's hard but the name of love can give u power.
2007-03-22 21:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to win over her parents by meeting them often and being sweet to them. Let them know that you are a very nice guy and that their daughter is in love with you. Sometimes parents will change their mind after knowing that their child is going to be happy/safe. Maybe they don't know you well enough. Make an effort to get into their good books.
Alternatively (if the parents still dont like you), Life is about choices. Ask her to make a choice.
You have to move on if she chooses to listen to her parents. It's not easy but its gotta be done. If she chooses you-->elope.
2007-03-22 21:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by liliglorry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a grown woman, she needs to think for herself. It's one thing to respect the ideas and feelings of ones family, but it is another to let you family make life changing decisions for you on into adulthood.
2007-03-22 21:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by JennieD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not having to answer to anyone. If your girl loves you then if her parents don't like you, it won't matter to her. First of all love yourself. You can't truly love someone else if you don't love yourself first. Talk to your girl if it is really love, you don't have anything to worry about
2007-03-22 21:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by delicioustrouble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what her parents think, if your in love then go for it.
2007-03-22 21:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, open, and tell them your going to give there daughter a good and full life with you!
2007-03-22 22:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married and live happy and have kids
2007-03-22 21:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by davidmc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋