My friends boyfriend dumped her for me, but i don't want to go out with him because he was her boyfriend and that would be really rude. But like she hates me now because she said i stole him from her but i didn't do anything. and i feel bad that he likes me now but i can't control he likes me. HELP PLEASE!!!
2007-03-22 21:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you shouldn't feel bad. you did nothing wrong. you are a good person and thats why you feel bad, if she can't see that then its her problem. life is too short to be unhappy. do what will make you happy
2007-03-22 21:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by princess1226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will notice (maybe in the future) with friendships that you didn´t even have to do anything to break them up. If he dumped her to be with you then he might have thought (for whatever reason) that you two have a chance. If you changed your mind and now write the question then, I understand why she hates you. Also, in a situation where one person gets dumped, there will ALWAYS be hate. And you have to understand that your best friend, your sister, even your mom, would start hating on you if you interfered with their men. So of course she is mad and hates you. Even if you did NOTHING to make him leave her, people would rather have something to blame. Good luck.
2007-03-22 21:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can do but prove that youre innocent in the situation. Right now she is hurt and is acting out of anger. Assure her that you have integrity and too much respect for her to do that to her. Youre a true friend, there should be an award for that! Take your friend out with you to take her mind off the jerk. SHe should be glad he left when he did without getting more attached.
2007-03-22 21:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd do you and your girlfriend good if you'd have a heart to heart talk. If she still insists on accusing you of stealing her man, then, that's not your problem anymore. Your conscience is clear and there's no reason for you to feel bad. Sever all ties with her and the guy. Both spell trouble!
2007-03-22 21:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by majika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't see what a true friend you are than se is not worth having friendship. You shouldn't feel bad but you are a nice, caring friendly person, thats why you feel bad.
2007-03-22 21:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. Your friend is feeling hurt right now, but I'll bet that she will calm down in time and realize that you didn't do anything wrong. You're a loyal friend, and I think she'll realize that soon.
2007-03-22 21:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.. Explain to her.. She should be mad with the boy and not you... Boys will come and go.. Best friends very seldom
2007-03-22 21:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋