Bf and I have been together 5 years, and there's a 7 year gap but we're in similar places since I graduated from college 2 years ago and he's been independent from his parents since he was 17. Its been a good relationship in a lot of ways - he's very supportive of me personally, when I was out of work for months he paid for everything including my rent, he's very thoughtful about the little things, takes me on vacations which at 19 years old was a big thing - but its like he wants me to be a part of his life versus sharing our lives together. I'm great w/his friends, but he's never willing to hang out w/mine. my bf and I have been having problems for a couple of months now, stemming from resentment over him calling me a dumb b**** during a fight a couple of months ago. Since he called me that I can't help being hurt by when he snaps at me over something I didn't do, I know he's frustrated but even if he apologizes afterward I'm hurt. How do I not take it personal if this is constant?
2007-03-22
12:21:07
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