Everyday of my life I am treated the way other people want me to be. It seems they care about me but really the truth is they don't. I feel I am trapped in a prison. I just don't get why people don't want to make me happy. I am a good person.
"Sometimes I just can't handle what I don't deserve" That is when I cry because that hurt me too much.
Seriously, I can't remember the last time someone did something for me that actually made me happy. I just feel I am not worth being happy.
Thankyou for reading me.
Please reply if you can..................
Love Amie
2007-03-22 12:17:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are working to achieve something for the having a goodwill as a reward. Your high expectations shouldn't be treated like everything is a give-and-take. You really just want affection in return because you believe you deserve it. Surely you do, but you need to be doing things that would make you happy, instead of thinking someone will invest happiness with you.
2007-03-22 12:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard the song "stay on the sunny side of life"? yea anywho. People are very interesting some in order to bring up there self esteem they shove other people down. but you need to be stronger than that dont let those jerks affect you like that. human beings are very strong in themselves and frankly you sound like me when i was younger. oh about 3 years ago i was put down everyday people shoved me out of the way and dissed me. i felt sad and lonely and honestly there were times when i saw other options. Finally i got the courage to just start talking with my mom awkward i know. other options try not being alone when you sad find someone that you know you can safely be around. other options (ive done this one) make a happy list silly but it works at times find things that make you smile like puppies (there so cute) or the fresh smell of rain or old memories of grandparents and Christmas stuff like that are always good. things arent all bad theres always good in a rainy day. So even though i have never met you never seen you never heard you voice know this i am a human being that cares about you with all my heart and i wish the best to you so good luck.
2007-03-22 12:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Vash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some simple facts that make life more bearable and help you understand things a bit better
1) good things sometimes happen to bad people
2) bad things sometimes happen to good people
3) No1 and No2 happen with about the same frequency.
4) no one else can make you happy.
5) you are in charge of your own feelings. you can decide to be happy if that is how you want to feel.
6) the fastest way to be happy is to go about making others happy.
7) you get to decide whether you deserve to be happy.
8) being happy takes practice, practice it often.
9) smiling even when you dont feel like smiling changes how you feel for the better
10) happiness is just a feeling, feelings come and go with variable levels of intensity and frequency.
2007-03-22 12:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandma always tells me that 4 every good thing in life there's something bad. If u have a lot and u don't even realize it, this may b the time 2 start thinking more optimistically. Everything will work out- don't worry.
2007-03-22 12:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by angelfire22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋