There's this girl. She's amazing, beautiful, funny, etc. We have been talking on the phone the last 3 weeks everyday for 2-3 hours a night. Everything would be perfect, if there wasn't a boyfriend. He's a cool guy who seems like he doesn't have a care in the world. He doesn't care who likes his girl or who she likes. She even hugs me in front of him for a long time. He doesn't care. I am confused as to what her intentions are in the long run. Go with me or stay with him? I'm just really confused and any help would be greatly appreciated.
2007-03-22 12:14:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no question she likes me, she's always telling me how much. She's always rubbing my leg and grabbing my hands. She always tells me to put my arm around her and she leans her head on my shoulder. I like her and she likes me back. I'm afraid if I ask her about our future together she will feel as if I am putting pressure on her to make a decision, and that might **** up our friendship.
2007-03-22 12:36:05 · update #1
Sounds like she likes u but becareful, SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!! just dont put yourself in a bad situation where u fall for her and then she decides to stay with the other guy. He doesnt sound like someone special but either way watch out for your own heart.
2007-03-22 12:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be completely honest you need to move on, i know thats not what you want to hear but if she really liked you she wud have dumped her b/f. right now she sounds like she's leading you on and imagine if you were her b/f and she waz going around hugging other guyz...hopefully you wudnt put up w/ that.....and as to what you should do, you shouldnt be accepting her hugs or talking on the phone 3hrs. theres this thing called untouchable territory and by you doing this stuff w/ her your showing you don't care a/b her choices or his feelings , i noe you said he dont care and chances are hes juss using her a trophy to be able to say i have a "hott g/f" right now the best thing to do iz to wait till shes single b-cuz in a way u seem desprete to be after a chick that obviously doesnt care a/b whos shes goin out w/ and that ur letting her play u.sorry cuz i noe thats not what u wanted to hear but its the truth. best of luck.
Sunshine
2007-03-22 19:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a girl and i would know that you should ask this girl if she likes you as a boyfriend and u don't know maybe she doesn't like u like that
if she likes you like a boyfriend ask her out but first tell her the truth and DO NOT
DO NOT
DO NOT
forget to compliment her
don't forget that you really should ask her if the guy is her boyfirnd and why she has such a lowsy one
and she should dump him
tell her your conserned about her you should give her hugs 24/7
and spend less time on the phone
NEVER SAY I LOVE YOU ON THE FIRST DATE
and protect her
and dont push her into things she doesent want to do
you should treasure her decisoin
good luck
2007-03-22 19:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by kittykatdoll95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to avoid getting hurt, you should only consider her a friend. If she wants more than that she will let you know. If she still has a boyfriend and tells you she wants you, get rid of her quick. It means she's a disrespectful girl, with no kind of value to commitments. She might just want a friend..ya know.
2007-03-22 19:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl what she wants out of your relationship. She might just be that type of a person. Tell her how you feel about her and if she feels the same way then maybe you can work it out.
2007-03-22 19:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-22 19:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her and her boyfriend are not meant for each other they will soon realise it and break it off. Soon she will realize that who she really like is you. Try ignoring her for a little while...like try to talk to her less...she'll soon realise what she's missing and take action.
2007-03-22 19:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by iris09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her-she might just be friendly
2007-03-22 19:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Monell K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only she can answer that.
2007-03-22 19:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by irrefutabledevotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋