Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

My girlfriend and I have always gotten along really well...but for the past few weeks things have been a lot different. It seems like we fight about the smallest things. Also, we haven't been hanging out as much, her roommate gets mad if she hangs out with me too much, so then my girlfriend doesn't want to make her mad. A lot of the time my gf and I plan on hanging out and then she bails on me because she doesn't want to leave her roommate alone. I think her roommate is a big baby....she's 21 and can't handle being alone for a day. Anyhow, I guess I'm wondering what i should do? Given an option, she'll always pick hanging out with her roommate over me...and she says it's because I will get over it sooner than her roommate will...so yea, what should I do?

2007-03-22 12:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend has been married for 10 years and has three kids. The marrage has fallen a part and he has been living with me for 4 months now.


He still sees his kids every weekend and always looks after them. As for his wife he has no more feelings for her. He likes her as a person but doesn't love her anymore. But he feels that he has no love to give to his wife. ( there has been alot of history to way this is but this is not the point).

THE REAL QUESTION IS has seperated from her but does this mean ( as they have sperated for 4 months now and he has told her he wants a divorce but it hasn't started) if he meets someone is this extra martial affair or not???

could she use this in the divorce against him? even though while they are together he never slept with anyone else??

what is the legal point of view on this??

help please - my friend is going insain worrying about it.

2007-03-22 12:37:55 · 30 answers · asked by Lulu Ferrari 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby and I got into a huge fight a cople of weels back and did a lot of things that fueled my anger towards him. He smashed my phone, hid the spare phone i had so I cant use it and worst deactivated my two email acounts. We are in good terms now but seems that everytime I think about my mail that I lost it just pisses me off. I had a lot of information in it and just for the record I don't have any guy on the side except him. I asked him to reactivate it but it seems like it cant be retrieved anymore. Do I still have any right to be pissed at him about this? I just dont want to let it pass since I feel like it wasn't even proper for him to do that

2007-03-22 12:37:17 · 17 answers · asked by stilettofan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok its my birthday and me and my friends are celebrate at school.then i am walking to 4th period then i saw him he walked me to class and then gave me a rose and lilttle mermaid dairy.i was so happy then i was walking to 6th then
I saw him he came up to me and said this is for you and i said what is it. then he showed it me it was i ring i caused believe it . i am wondering what does that me when ur boyfriend give you a ring and we have been going out for a month?????????????So ladys and guys what does that say ?????????

2007-03-22 12:36:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay my friend wants just to see who see should choose who to go out with with just some small details who would you choose?

Boy#1. Name: Joshua, Single, Puerto Rican, gangster style in clothes calls you names, and people say flirts with her in math.
Boy#2. Name: Aaron, african american, gangster style in clothes, going out with somebody, but says he use to like her, talks with her in s.s class, and once told her to wait and did nothing and just looked at her face when he was single.
Boy#3. Name: Hunter, american, holister clothes style, single, flirts with her in keyboarding, and all ways says I know who likes you and won't tell you who.

2007-03-22 12:36:53 · 8 answers · asked by betweenalica 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is a charming and flirty guy. He's even like that in front of me. I think he's just comfortable with me but one of his friends hit on him while she was drunk and I told him it bothered me that he goes ahead and flirts with her so he stopped with her. He still does it with other girls though. It bothers me but I don't want to be controlling.

2007-03-22 12:36:46 · 10 answers · asked by ki55nte11 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a t.v upstairs with like 200 channels and then the t.v in the basement with like 40. The basement is totally gross and cold and damp and uninviting. The only channel my brother ever watches is on the t.v upstairs. Even though about 60 % of the time my show is on downstairs, i don't always want to go down there because it is so cold. Sometimes i go downstairs but sometimes i would like to stay upstairs, even though my show is on downstairs and my brother wants to watch his show. Is it bad of me to want to stay upstairs sometimes?

2007-03-22 12:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

SO. there is this guy "paul".
I have know him for 5 years.
He is my neighbor.
We used to hang out alot, and then somehow,[his freshman year of HS] we just drifted apart.
For awhile we didn't really talk, but now we've started too.
AND now he is starting to give me rides home from school.
and talking to me more, and always flirting with me.
Does he like me?
and should i tell him that i like him?

2007-03-22 12:35:46 · 9 answers · asked by lilly m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 12:35:41 · 9 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

im going pretty crazy right now, please help...... every little problem at work seems to be messing up my relationship.... i dont know how.. but everytime something goes wrong at work, i come home mad and take it out on everyone else including my relationship... how can i make that better???thanks

2007-03-22 12:35:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-22 12:35:01 · 29 answers · asked by KandiGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

my best guy friend "Joe" is always there for me, listens to me and helps sort out my problems. he had a crush on me earlier, and i kinda think he still does. i just went through a bad breakup with another guy (one of his bffs), and Joe stayed with me through everything. Joe pulled me out of my depression earlier this year and i've kinda pulled him out of his. we've hugged once b/c both our lives have been horrible. he's never had a gf more than 2 months. he's the best guy i've ever known, but i just don't know how to sort out my feelings about him. i'm gonna miss him next year when he's not here (he's a senior in h.s., i'm a sophomore). please help me out a little bit. thanks

2007-03-22 12:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, the problem is he has a girlfriend i have my first hour class with him and he is always smiling at me my friends make comments about me liking him when he's around and he pretends to like me also when we alone anywhere but when he with his girl he pretend like he dont know me. I really really like this guy and i think he knows it...but sumtimes i feel like im inlove with him what i suppose to do to get over him or how am i suppose to keep away from him i dont know what to do i really like this boy...but he has a girl :( can someone help me and tell me what i shud do?

2007-03-22 12:34:47 · 4 answers · asked by vickie 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy who used to b my bff and me and him had been friends since the fourth grade. in fifth grade i told his NEW best friend that i liked the guy that was the friend of the guy i told i liked. kinda confusing, but anyway, the guy who i told that i liked told my best friend. then my bff asked me out but i said no. idk y. but oh well. anyway. now in skool he hardly evn looks at me, much less talks to me. so now im trying to find a way so that we can b friends. PLZ HELP!

2007-03-22 12:34:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what would you think if a guy you might be interested in wanted to watch the notebook with you?

2007-03-22 12:34:17 · 5 answers · asked by scott b 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm 14 years old and i just transitioned from 8th to 9th grade going to a completely new school (Catholic to Just plain out Private), and I was really excited because of all the stories about how my brother and sister said It was so much fun.
Well, right now its the complete opposite for me.
I'm 14 and im probably one of the youngest guys in my grade, but for some reason I'm a bit more mature then most of them. Most of the guys are not very bright and are immature, and i almost feel like i have to be stupid for them to like me... but i dont want to change my personality for them...I also have this knack for always getting tons of girl-friends. All the girls in my class constantly talk about me, and even made a fan club for me on facebook. But i dont want to have all girl friends... I want to have guy friends to hang out with... i get completely bored on weekend and on school breaks. Im really sick of it, i get depressed sometimes as well. They call me "gay" and stuff. What do i do?

2007-03-22 12:33:53 · 4 answers · asked by greehighlighter 1 in Friends

Neither of us have much money. He's an outdoor type but any thing would be good.

2007-03-22 12:33:45 · 1 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

So about a week ago me and this girl I realllly like made out a bit, but the next day she said she only wants to be friends. So we went to a movie a few days ago and she started holding my hand and what not, obviously it didnt go as far as the other time, but she seed to really like me. Since then we've gone back to school and she hangs out with me quite a lot, but kids have kinda been teasing me and her about it. She says it wont happen again when someone asked her and she told my friend that she thinks it would be weird for me to ask her out because I know were only friends. (She told me that on msn by the way that she told him that) But she never actually went and told ME that. I've told her I liked her and she knows it. I cant tell if she likes me as friends or mabe more and just tells people that she only thinks of us as friends because I havent asked her out and because they bug her about it. Plus I kinda told her I wouldnt ask her out because i was told she didnt want me to.

2007-03-22 12:33:01 · 2 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay his birthday is coming up and I want to do something for him. I've decided to make brownies for him because I know he loves them. The problem is, I know that he likes me more than just as friends, but I only see him as a friend. By doing this for him am I leading him on? Because I don't wanna do that.

2007-03-22 12:32:59 · 2 answers · asked by ap 1 in Singles & Dating

K here it is. my guy of 6 yrs and kids, packed up and moved out this is the second time he's just took off, the last was 4 yrs ago. He says we argue to much and its not a healthy home. I wanted us to go to counceling but he said no he didn't want a relationship with me anymore says who knows in the future. My family wants me to move to where they are. I need some advice should I move/stay and forget him/hope

2007-03-22 12:32:52 · 11 answers · asked by Snowflake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my guy friend said:

know i go with someone and it might be a long time but that don't change the fact that i want to F*** u besides what she dont know cant hurt her and it will only be one time

2007-03-22 12:32:25 · 12 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i like the same guy as my b.f.f. but she dont know, one night he waz flirting w/ her and i got rly jelous but didnt do nething. after she left we ended up making out and he waz being rly sweet. he even put his hands up my shirt a bit but not too far. well afterwards he said not to tell any1 a/b it and i cudnt cuz i didnt want my b.f.f to find out.but the thing iz she likes him i like him he likes me and well since then we kinda talked but now it seems as if hes kinda ignoring me and he seems like kind of a player but then again hes not cuz i noe him. i rly like him but have guilt on my back....what do i do?!?!?!?!

2007-03-22 12:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to sound like I am inviting myself since it is her senior prom. But i have been informed that she wants me to ask her since it is her only prom- but she has no idea that I am actually going to ask her.

2007-03-22 12:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by dirtysouth017 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting seperated my husband, he decided that he is moving out in one more week. He wants to stay friends but dosent want to live togeather anymore or have a romantic relationship. He isn't interested in other woman either only wants to be alone and sleep and have peace n quiet all the time. He is on depression meds. What should i think? We have been togeather for almost 8 years. I told him if he leaves we are done for good. He dosent seem to care said he wants to live alone. How should i process this or make sence of this? I know its proubley for the better less heartache in the long run. Any opinions??

2007-03-22 12:32:11 · 9 answers · asked by mistiful2001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK there is this girl I am crazy about, she was my best friend and i was the only Male she trusted and talked to. She recently moved to another state and she probably will not be back besides to visit for a little while each year. A few days before she left, i told her that I was sort of talking to this one other girl and that I couldn't talk to her even as a friend, that really hurt her and made me realize exactly how much she means to me. I apologized and we are good friends but it will never be the same. I have a powerful feeling that She is my future wife. I got straightened things out with this other girl and now we are just friends, but this Girl that moved, what should I do? (We still keep in touch)

2007-03-22 12:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by iwearshoes 2 in Friends

What place are you more receptive to meeting a man to get to know him? Is it a club, bookstore, gym, etc?

2007-03-22 12:31:35 · 2 answers · asked by savmitch1 1 in Singles & Dating

Deric is my friend, and he thinks he is hot. Do you think so too?

2007-03-22 12:31:15 · 3 answers · asked by Dead Dog 2 in Friends

everyone around you has or has had a serious relationship and some are even no longer virgins while you've had none and still are? Seems like all my friends have expericenced things I have yet to even touch upon and I can't help but to look down on myself.

2007-03-22 12:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by Dom 2 in Friends

my freind of 20 years has a daughter who will be married in april. the daughter is very spoiled and went to jamacia to get married, she came back and will have a wedding reception abot 2 hour drive from where we live. my freind called me yesterday and said her daughter ran out of invitations and told me the date of the dinner. i told her that if she ran out of invitations then she should go make more! would you still go or not???? i think it is rude to have the mother of the bride to call on the phone to invite me!!!

2007-03-22 12:30:41 · 16 answers · asked by tristy 2 in Weddings

I am in the first week of my second trimester and I just looove being pregnant. I didn't feel too hot during the 1st trimester, so I needed some help around the house and stuff from my fiance. I do feel better now and have my part time job. He works construction and it is very hard labor work. He provides very well, works 7-4 five days a week. Our house is a mess, laundry everywhere, dishes pilled up... but it seems like i just did them!!! I ask him to help and he says hes tired and just because i'm pregnant doesn't mean i should milk it (he didnt mean that in a mean way either.) Is he right, or should I demand that I need a bit of a break? Its hard, because I'm not greedy... but to some people I could come off as the bad-guy and to others he could be... What can I do to make things smoother in the household?

2007-03-22 12:30:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce