i betrayed my best friend and she has no idea?

Question

i like the same guy as my b.f.f. but she dont know, one night he waz flirting w/ her and i got rly jelous but didnt do nething. after she left we ended up making out and he waz being rly sweet. he even put his hands up my shirt a bit but not too far. well afterwards he said not to tell any1 a/b it and i cudnt cuz i didnt want my b.f.f to find out.but the thing iz she likes him i like him he likes me and well since then we kinda talked but now it seems as if hes kinda ignoring me and he seems like kind of a player but then again hes not cuz i noe him. i rly like him but have guilt on my back....what do i do?!?!?!?!

Answer 1

My best friend did the exact same thing, it killed me, you need to tell her, she needs to know, if she finds out she continued dating him and he cheated on her and you tell her after they break up like my best friend did she'll be way more heartbroken. Please, you need to learn that a friendship is very valuable and that if you ruin one you have nothing, my friend and I are still best friends but the heartbreak is still there. You need to tell her now, if she finds out that you didn't tell her she'll die. Mine was horrible because she told my friend and threatened her so he wouldn't tell. Please please tell her. She will be mad because it hurts so bad but you need to let her blow off steam and then you need to beg forgivness. Don't let your friendship die. And remember, it will take her a while to completly forgive you, It's been a year now and I still haven't completly forgiven my friend. Oh and a word of advice so her recovery is better than mine is, don't mention it, don't mention him, don't talk about how his charms got to you and please don't talk about how much he hurt you when he ignored you, it'll make her feel so horrible and she'll want to cry, don't let this ruin your friendship!

Answer 2

I know.... you can look like a moron and tell her and feel better about yourself....But hen ask yourself why you did it? Jealousy. Was it worth your friendship. Is it? She shouldn't get that mad over a guy anyway though. Especially if they aren't even going out. There are no strong feeling yet. She'll be hurt but it'll be worse if they go out and then when he's mad he says you did that behind her back to get back at her. Good luck.

Answer 3

dont let men get in between you and your friend. Guys are around all the time that want you but a bff is something you get once in a life time. tell her and say your sorry hug and make up.

Answer 4

tell her. the reason he doesnt want anyone to know is b/c he wants her and u to like him. he likes the attention.
my bff did exactly wat u did to me over the summer. she told me eventually, and i was more mad at the guy than i was at her. but mostly i was mad b/c she didn't like the guy, and i did. aslo, she is a huge slut, and i was annoyed that i couldn't have this guy w/o letting him up my shirt. anyway. i wasn't rele mad at her until i found out she didn't like him. i was always mad at the guy. if shes ur friend, she will understand that u lke him too-- and u cant help it if he likes u. its not ur fault, u cant just pretend u dont like him. ask her to just b happy for u, and if she is ur bff she will b

Answer 5

first off dont ask for advice in internet slang it makes people think your immature and want to ignore you. secondly you should tell your best friend because hiding these things always makes it worse.

Answer 6

tell your bff and shell understand because if you try to tell her later or if you dont tell her shell find out sooner or later and shell be mad at u for not telling her before. good luck

Answer 7

tell ur friend and dont be a h**r that could be evn worse and he is alredy ignoring u anyways so he is a player

Answer 8

Let your contious be your guide.