My girlfriend and I have always gotten along really well...but for the past few weeks things have been a lot different. It seems like we fight about the smallest things. Also, we haven't been hanging out as much, her roommate gets mad if she hangs out with me too much, so then my girlfriend doesn't want to make her mad. A lot of the time my gf and I plan on hanging out and then she bails on me because she doesn't want to leave her roommate alone. I think her roommate is a big baby....she's 21 and can't handle being alone for a day. Anyhow, I guess I'm wondering what i should do? Given an option, she'll always pick hanging out with her roommate over me...and she says it's because I will get over it sooner than her roommate will...so yea, what should I do?
2007-03-22 12:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her roommate is a girl
2007-03-22 13:27:39 · update #1
Normally I would suggets talking to her and telling her how your are feeling but the way she stands you up is just not right. Unless you love her I would find someone that has time for you....just out of curiosity is her room mate a female or male?
Goodluck Honey
2007-03-22 12:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her she is not worth your time. then she will figure out that she is pissed at her roommate because she lost a really good person who wants to hang out.regardless if you try to bring it up it's going to make her more mad at you. let her get mad a the roommate
2007-03-22 12:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ryah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never under estimate the power of women in pairs or more.
she is being a good friend to her room mate who as you say is acting like a big baby.
surely this shows how nice your gf is? wouldnt you want to be with her even more? if you want her to choose you over her friend then i think you are on a losing battle, dont take it personally though. look at it as an admirable quality in your gf.
2007-03-22 12:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy...what the...is she seeing you or her roommate!!!? Move on, and let her know why. If your an especially warm person tell her you sincerely hope the two of them will be happy together.
2007-03-22 12:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by paralegaltechnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems the room mate is the problem because she just won't have anyone to hang out with. I say you get one of your friends or something to go out with her to keep her occupied.
2007-03-22 12:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes being distant for a reason...
ask her to bring her roommate along, and ull bring one of ur friends along. if she says no, u need to have a serious talk w/ her.
2007-03-22 12:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'll she should pick the man she loves which is u. and is his her roomate a guy cuz if he his u know they doin' somethin. and u guys should be livin together. cuz the person she is livin wit don't like u around ur gf. so maybe confront her about that and see what she thinks!
2007-03-22 12:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by It's barbie bytch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really botheres you enough, dump her and find a new chick.
Don't try to change her behavior though, that's just pointless and annoying for everyone involved.
2007-03-22 12:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you miss spending time w/ her & that her roomate needs to get some friends because you love her and love bieng w/ her and if she uses her roomate as an exuse again, then ask her if you could come over.
2007-03-22 12:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by moon_stars_fury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her. Maybe she's a lesbo and rather do her roommate than you
2007-03-22 12:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Liya K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋