Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

Im 21 and I am pregnant by a 32 yr old. My parents think my boyfriend is 26. I have yet to tell them his rightful age because they are going to flip.............how do I tell them?

2007-03-22 12:49:57 · 13 answers · asked by Might Be a Mom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lately, I've been getting to know a guy that I like but there's some things I don't get and is driving me crazy and confusing.

I remember when, I hungout with him, and my 2 other friends, and I was asking him a lot of personal questions like what he was interested in (hobbies, colour, animal, movies, bithday, etc) And, that he should ask me questions as well. He said "I don't like asking questions"

The thing about this I don't get is that, today, he asked me about an assignment for school and when it was due and that's it. He never and doesn't ask me personal stuff.

Does this mean, he's not interested in me, or that he is, but he's shy and nervous? or, isn't ready yet? and just want to be friends for now?

2007-03-22 12:49:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a man married 20 plus yrs leaves his family for some 21 yr old he met at work ....up until then things were not great but didnt think it would ever come to him hurting me or the kids this way.....lack of any remorse no guilt that i can see..when we do talk he is nasty and hurtful.......explain why help me understand....

2007-03-22 12:49:48 · 15 answers · asked by Mary G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have noticed, quite often lately, that in public places, parents will scream, cuss, and slap their kids right in front of whoever is watching. Why would someone put a child on this earth and then treat them like they are worthless? I feel so sorry for these kids. If they do this in public, it makes me wonder what they do in the privacy of their own homes. I welcome anyones thoughts on this and what you think can be done to help the kids?

2007-03-22 12:49:42 · 2 answers · asked by pebbles 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am shy and in 8th grade.She is in my class and i usally say hi to her but sometimes she doesn't say hi back. She sits next to me in math and only realy talk to her then. PLease help!!

2007-03-22 12:49:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. But for some reason he doesn't like to do things with me anymore. Even when I'm going out with some friends, I'll invite him along. The thing I find most disturbing is that, his best friend has just flown in from CA, and all of a sudden he's ready for anything. Not to mention that he planned on going to a show with him, and hadn't thought of even remotely asking me if I would like to come along. And then asks, "Oh yea,that was the other thing I was going to ask you , can I use your car tonight?" This kind of thing has happened before. We were on a hike one day, and he saw someone he hadn't seen in a long time. All the while he's joking, and laughing, and remincsing about old memories. Meanwhile I'm just standing there, thinking "Is he going to introduce me?" And to my surprise he didnt! Anyway, the whole point to this is, should I stay with him?

2007-03-22 12:49:09 · 5 answers · asked by Cherise 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so i met this guy on my cruise, we had a thing and liked eachother a lot and after the cruise he contacted me and we talked a few times but then things died down a bit cause we live far away from eachother. about 2 months after the cruise i went to surprise visit him. he was really happy, and acted the same exact way as he did on the cruise. i was only there for about 20 minutes cause i had to go somewhere else. he contacted me after the visit and then things died down once again. 4 months after that in february, me and my friend contacted him because we happen to be going to college by where he lives in a few months and we were auditioning for dance. he said, of course, come hang out with us. we went there and hung out and once again, he acted the same exact way. he explained to me how me visiting the first time he was really happy but it was like giving him a puppy and then taking it away from him. he kept asking the question "can i keep it..is it mine?"..which was really cute. me and him talked for about an hour alone about everything. i left and he told me to text him when i got back to the hotel. he asked if i was mad at him for not talking to me all the time. i said no, and he said he can tell i was. but i wasnt, not at all. he texted me that night saying "thanks for coming cant wait to see u again." we spoke for awhile about the night and how we had fun and later on i said "goodnight have fun"..and he said "im going to sleep..all my fun left already." that night he commented me on myspace saying he had fun and he hopes to hear from me soon. two nights later he texts me again saying hey and we talked for awhile. i asked him to come to ny to see me, but he feels weird cause he doesnt know anyone and he feels as if everyone will "like him..then hate him" he said he would think about it, and i even said "we can go to the city." he told me "way rather see you then the city"..meaning it doesnt matter what we do, as long as i can see you..which was really cute. he then sent a couple of funny videos and one night his friends called me from his phone. i heard them say something about girlfriend in the background and he laughed and got on the phone and kept apologizing for calling so late..he told me he was really sorry and hed call me the next day. he was drunk when he called the last time, so he probably forgot the entire night because he didnt call the next day, and now we havent really been speaking..

why isnt he talking to me now?

2007-03-22 12:48:16 · 7 answers · asked by olaa l 1 in Singles & Dating

guys... which do you prefer out-going girls or girls that are more on the quiet side?

2007-03-22 12:48:04 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Cucumber Melon 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known this girl for a while, as friends, jus lately shes had a real tough time of things. I realised i liked her alot a few weeks back and have been tryin to get her out of the house for a bit. Trouble is she has become so closed up, she never leaves the house apart from work and college. Where we live there is little to do.
I figured if i asked her out as she is at the minute she may well say no and become more isolated, so i was goin to bide my time and jus make her feel good and happier. The problem comes in the fact that she really is total introverted now. She keeps saying she wants a boyfriend, but i think it may just be talk. I have tied being there for her, but just lately she has taken to just not speaking to anyone. I like this girl, but arnt sure as to wether i go after her, or just let her go, and move on???? i don't know. She is worth chasing, but only if it is possible. I don't know how she feels about me, im struggling to shake the old friend 'tag'?? ideas??

2007-03-22 12:47:25 · 21 answers · asked by G-prince 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey <3

I have friends, but I've never hung out with the big group that calls themselves "popular". I've noticed that I am, um, more intelligent than these people and many people have told me that when people are insecure they clump together in a group and call themselves "popular". Do you think I should try to mix with this group, and if so, PLEASE tell me ways to get over my shyness and strike up a conversation with one of them. By the way, these "populars" have been outwardly friendly to me, and I think they like me.

Thanks so much! :)

Thank

2007-03-22 12:45:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mom and I fight. She says that she is the one that is being nice but she starts the fights. Plus she balmes it on me. What should I do?!

2007-03-22 12:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by Horse_Shaped_Heart93 2 in Family

2007-03-22 12:45:20 · 9 answers · asked by aiverson23@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

my boyfriend that i am suppose to marry sat ,but we have no money . we want to have the wedding nexct year.but the problem is he wont get a job . what should i do.

2007-03-22 12:44:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but yet i have tried talking to him!

2007-03-22 12:44:14 · 5 answers · asked by carebear86 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, so I'm 15 and in high school. Here's the deal, my girlfriend decided to break up with me. Word got around to me before she actually did it. So according to my 'intel' she was going to do it at school on monday, the day i found out was friday.

So to lighten up my mood my friends showed me a wild night on Saturday. We ended up at a teen dance downtown. I met someone, and spent the majority of the night dancing and flirting with her. After it was over, one of my friends was throwing up, so everyone decided to take him home and then head over to another friends house. I decided to go with this new girl and her friends. We hooked up and I spent the night with her at her friends house (parents were gone for the weekend). Turns out that we have much more in common then a like for each other's lips, and we hung out the following day. Then comes the dreaded Monday, and guess what? No break up. I'm still with her, yet Have plans with the new girl this week. What now?

2007-03-22 12:43:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay his birthday is coming up and I want to do something for him. I've decided to make brownies for him because I know he loves them. The problem is, I know that he likes me more than just as friends, but I only see him as a friend. By doing this for him am I leading him on? Because I don't wanna do that.

2007-03-22 12:43:14 · 10 answers · asked by ap 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is a good two years older than me.
We're both in upper high school and we both arn't dating anyone.1. when we are in a large group he either stands acrossed from me "and stares at the ground?" or stands right next to me. 2. he'll playfully pick on me
like yesterday we where in the gym and he had to look all the way from the running track above just to say "hey slacker"
3. i was doing something and he was acrossed the room he looked at me and threw his hands up like "what are you doing?" and i did the same thing back..and we did it back and forth about 6 times
4. When i'm near him he doesnt talk..maybe 1 or 2 words every 20 minutes.
5. I'll see him stare at me sometimes i dont know how much he does it but i catch him at times.
6. He likes to laugh at what i do..Only when i'm doing something wrong and its not a like HA HA! at you its more Thats cute and i cant believe your doing it wrong
does he like me or am i reading into it to much cause i like him back?

2007-03-22 12:43:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jamie H 1 in Singles & Dating

he started to date 2 weeks after we broke up but he said that i was the love of his life and he wanted to marry me we were engaged. he trys to call here still. i really want to believe that he still loves me but he has a girlfriend just 2 months after we broke up. is there a reason someone is so selfish and screwed up and what is wrong with me wanting to believe that he ever loved me?

2007-03-22 12:43:01 · 5 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Singles & Dating

The one they say they love.
I'm really trying to understand you pycological problems

2007-03-22 12:42:45 · 14 answers · asked by Y ask ME! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 12:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by BlUnTgOd420 1 in Weddings

I really hate being shy and all, im fine with my friends but when i wanna talk to a girl it's too hard unless they say something first, what is the best way to gain confidence and talk to a girl and maybe get her as a girl friend?

2007-03-22 12:42:12 · 1 answers · asked by littledeater 1 in Singles & Dating

if the theme is old school... can we just wear whatever we want? we dont have to follow it right? and if its just "casual" that means i can just wear regular school clothes right? i dont really like the idea of old school. ><
also... i asked a guy to sadies but like.. it was informally... -__- i was like hey, are u going to sadies? then hes all only if u ask me... then i was like O_o ok... then hes like, "are you going to ask me now?" then i was liek ok. COME WITH ME! then he said ok!
T_T
but then the next day i mentioned sadies and he was liek "you still havent asked me!"... like, he knows he's going with me and all... hes just expecting me to ask him formally. but didnt i already ask? -___-
what should i do? ask him again formally?...
and girls dont have to pay for guys' ticket to sadies, do we? O_o

2007-03-22 12:41:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex fiancee still wants to be in my life ,but i only want him as a friend,but he calls me only to hang out and have sex with m,e and i dont want that so i stop calling did i do something wrong.

2007-03-22 12:41:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

soo here's the scoop I broke up with my boyfriend 3 and a half months ago and we went out for 4 months and we have both been single this whole time like I had been seeing a couple of guys but nothing happened and I was still caught up in my ex and nothing was ever the same and he sometimes still calls me like every couple weeks to "see how im doing and asks if im seeing anyone" and I called him yesterday and today and yesterday he suggested that we hang out soon and that when I turn 18 we celebrate my birhtday together and like today I called him up and I told him all of my feelings, that I seriously couldn't stop thinking about thim , I still have feelings for him, miss him etc and he said that he was so suprised to hear that and also that he does think about me all of the time,he misses me and still has some feelings for me said that he has to think about everything though and that he needs a little while to think it over becuase he was in shock do you think we will get back together

2007-03-22 12:40:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some great first date ideas? What's a better movie to watch on a first date, borat or donnie darko?

2007-03-22 12:39:52 · 2 answers · asked by lachica 1 in Singles & Dating

i realy like him but he doesnt know i even exsist how do i get him to know i do with out being obvious

2007-03-22 12:39:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy for a really long time & I don't know if he likes me. what should I do?

2007-03-22 12:39:47 · 5 answers · asked by ~*â?¥Glamorousâ?¥*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

Is an attic a good place to make out? (Have sex?)

I cant do it anywhere in the house, because my parents are always home, so would an attic do it?

It's not a finished attic, has boxes and all, but not too dusty or anything.

2007-03-22 12:39:41 · 5 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 12:38:50 · 2 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Singles & Dating

like he always passes beside me. one day i catch him seeing me and i turn to see what he was doing and he turn his eyes fast so i wouldn't catch him but i did. usually guys like skinny girls and one day he said he like not fat girls but like chunky or slim.

2007-03-22 12:38:48 · 5 answers · asked by happyheart 1 in Friends