Am i thinking right?????? pleaseplease help me.?

Question

This guy is a good two years older than me.
We're both in upper high school and we both arn't dating anyone.1. when we are in a large group he either stands acrossed from me "and stares at the ground?" or stands right next to me. 2. he'll playfully pick on me
like yesterday we where in the gym and he had to look all the way from the running track above just to say "hey slacker"
3. i was doing something and he was acrossed the room he looked at me and threw his hands up like "what are you doing?" and i did the same thing back..and we did it back and forth about 6 times
4. When i'm near him he doesnt talk..maybe 1 or 2 words every 20 minutes.
5. I'll see him stare at me sometimes i dont know how much he does it but i catch him at times.
6. He likes to laugh at what i do..Only when i'm doing something wrong and its not a like HA HA! at you its more Thats cute and i cant believe your doing it wrong
does he like me or am i reading into it to much cause i like him back?

Answer 1

Awwwwwwwwww! the guy so likes you & you do him too.

What is it about this question that I find so sweet, I read so many on YA about people still at school [admittedly not always high school] that are wanting to hit on their best mates b/f's or their b/f's are hitting on their best female friends, most just don't have a good feeling about them, but this one? this one's different somehow....I don't know why......tell him how you feel or get a couple of tickets to somewhere or invite him to the movies or something......but whatever you do, don't let him carry on un-sure about how you feel about him.
Good luck Honey, you sound so lovely......KB ♥
BTW I'm not normally the gooey type......

Answer 2

Go very carefully with this, I think you may be reading far too much into the situation. As you say in number 6 he laughs at what you do and thats the thing is he laughing at you or with you, a small variation which makes all the difference. If he was interested in you he would talk to you.
On your part is it not just a crush didnt we all get them in High school.
Take a step back and dont put yourself in a situation where you may make a fool of yourself.
You are I think only a youngster you have plenty of time to enjoy life and love take it easy the right one will come along evenutally.

Answer 3

there is a possibility that he likes you and that he may not be experienced enough to see your fondness of him or doesn't know how to get you into a conversation or activity that will allow you and he to spend some time together to exchange ideas, thoughts or opinions. If you wish it is perfectly ok to take the lead and design your own style of seduction or meeting based on suggestion or request for whatever. Advice, the best way to approach this is to lead him to the circumstances by plan that would give extended time together in a group setting or not, but if you let him think it is his idea, and being a male, know that this approach will influence his ideas about who you are. Not advised as a style or extended use but for what you are asking it will break the ice and allow you some good information.,

Answer 4

er yeah.


He also I recon is despirate for signs you fancy him back and that if he tries anything you wont stop being his mate and hate him.

Tip on how to do this...As in upper high school. ie 18 ish

Engineer a game where if one of you wins the other gets a kiss.

Or bet your bra.

Or ask him out to a cinema pref a scarey movie so he can put his arm around you, maybe attempt to feel your boob.

This is silly guy for want to be close to you and kiss you...

Ie just suglle up to him and ask him to hold you close.


ie central theme here is start to get touchy feely then kissy kissy

And also put him at ease with you showing you feel the same way he does and wont treat him like some pervey kid fidler simly as he fancies you or act like you would just laugh and dump him.


And that he can srew up or say they wrong thing and you will still like him.

He is trying to sus you out

Answer 5

Hey <3

I'm, like, 99.9% sure this guy likes you. Sudden loss for words, playfulness and even teasing are definate signs that someone's into you. I suggest that you figure out if you like him back, and if so, leave little "hints" that you're interested. Don't go outwardly flirtatious or sleazy, that'll just turn him off. Try to let him make the first move.

Good luck! :)

Answer 6

Oh he likes you all right, be patient, always smile and keep up the humour with him. Ask him if you see him alone would he enjoy a coffee with you. It is very obvious that he is very very shy. Go slow, he is having trouble talking to you because when you are shy, you can't think of a thing to talk about. Take care Heather

Answer 7

didnt need a calculator for this one.. 1. he fears your rejection so he stays away in public. 2. but he is willing to show that he is paying attention. 3. ya'll can communicate. 4. he's afraid of saying the wrong thing.. when he just wants you to know what he feels. 5. that one is self explanitory... he's rehearsing talking to you. 6. he only finds it possible to aknowledge you when he is one of many looking at you.. (safety in numbers..)

sweetie... he really likes you... but he feels intimidated and feels you might reject him.. the next steps depend on if you want him??

Answer 8

Puppy love! he wants to be the aggressor but doesn't know how to. He is probably hoping that you'll catch on and follow his lead. One thing I learned about beading around the bush is that if you keep it up, someone else will come along and scoop them up. If you like him then you go for it. Don't wait on him.

Answer 9

ok now t his i swher e the misunderstanding is. me and my guy mate were like that but he had a girlfriend so i knew where we both stood altho we were like best friends rather than i like u and u like me, lets get it on etc. but hey ho another guy was similar to him but he just wanted to be friends and when i asked him, he totally denied it and still does (i think so) but it scares me coz i totally liked him as in wanted him way bad but it took me a whle to digest it and i felt rejected and lost my confidence and was titally downheartened so be prepared for the worst coz when it strikes, it strikes bad, espcially when it hasnt ever happened to u b4.

Answer 10

he's got a problem sounds like its a secret your dating go out with someone who doesn't care if the whole world knows your a couple dump him babe there is better boys out there