Okay his birthday is coming up and I want to do something for him. I've decided to make brownies for him because I know he loves them. The problem is, I know that he likes me more than just as friends, but I only see him as a friend. By doing this for him am I leading him on? Because I don't wanna do that.
2007-03-22 12:43:14 · 10 answers · asked by ap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, your leading him on.
2007-03-22 12:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by blogbaba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making brownies will not give him the wrong idea, just be clear that you consider him a good friend and thats it
2007-03-22 19:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes brownies, then you should make them for him. You can tell him that you think he is the best friend that you ever had when you give them to him. It will tell him thst you like him as a friend.
2007-03-22 19:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will stay friends until you touch, up till then everything will be fine, you need to smile and laugh at things he says but if they are comments that step over the line be strong and come back with a small negative comment, so he knows hes gone to far, but trust me on the touching thing, once that happens you have crossed the boundary from friends to lovers and then it gets crap.
You could tell him you only want to be friends, but it wont be enough without a firm boundary, good luck with this one
2007-03-22 19:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by gadget31uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you make it clear your the gift is from a friend it shouldn't be a problem otherwise yeah you are leading him on.
2007-03-22 19:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Weevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, brownies is no big deal.. but it depends the way he thinks so i suggest putting giving him a card saying "from your friend -(your name)"
2007-03-22 19:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not leading him on Ppl get food for their birthday all the time. i got two cakes once. another time my friend made me lunch.
2007-03-22 19:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Checkdisout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn straight you are hun, He'll be wanting more that just brownies if you know what I'm saying,so I would just opt for a card.i'm randy aka,big R
2007-03-22 19:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just reconfirm to him often that you are just friends and if he wants to still be friends then he will respect that and just except the gift from a friend.
2007-03-22 19:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by ya girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u are...
2007-03-22 19:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋