soo here's the scoop I broke up with my boyfriend 3 and a half months ago and we went out for 4 months and we have both been single this whole time like I had been seeing a couple of guys but nothing happened and I was still caught up in my ex and nothing was ever the same and he sometimes still calls me like every couple weeks to "see how im doing and asks if im seeing anyone" and I called him yesterday and today and yesterday he suggested that we hang out soon and that when I turn 18 we celebrate my birhtday together and like today I called him up and I told him all of my feelings, that I seriously couldn't stop thinking about thim , I still have feelings for him, miss him etc and he said that he was so suprised to hear that and also that he does think about me all of the time,he misses me and still has some feelings for me said that he has to think about everything though and that he needs a little while to think it over becuase he was in shock do you think we will get back together
2007-03-22 12:40:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah we broke up because we were both really busy and he was never around neither was i but I think it can still work because we are still quite good friends and it seems as if he still really likes me ;) :D
2007-03-22 13:07:45 · update #1
I would say yes, but it has to be mutual and if so, you both need to analyze why you guys broke up when that happened, and what things you would change to make it all work and be on the right way.
If you guys still love each other and miss each other and you cant open your hearts and minds to go out with other people, then you should get together, talk and make an agreement that you will both do a big effort and put your heart and soul to make this work out.
If for some reason he says: I dont think its gonna work or Im not ready yet, give him some time, maybe days, weeks, months. You decide when its the cutoff time and if he still says no, just let it go, go out with your friends, have fun, cry if you need to and get over it. I've cried many times for a breakup and I know if might feel like the world its over, but women are strong and you will be able to get over it sooner than you think.
See what happens and good luck! :)
2007-03-22 12:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by bloodymary24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely sounds like you both miss each other--and it sounds normal that he needs to think about it (he may be afraid of getting hurt again). It definitely sounds like you two could get back together and try to work things out. Everything happens for a reason and love always comes back if it was meant to be. Good luck!!
2007-03-22 12:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say, even though you both are thinking about eachother you could still get back or not back together. If you guys really want it to happen than yes, you will get back together, but if you both set it aside and forget about it, then probaly not. Good Luck :-)
2007-03-22 12:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definitely get back together. It will probably end up hurting you again though. I think you need to move on. But you're young and you are going to do whatever you want anyway thinking it's the right thing to do , even though it is not. I wish you wouldn't get back together with him but good luck anyway.
2007-03-22 12:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see it has a high possibilty. Just let things settle a little bit, but keep being flirtatious and cute. Single him out and keep calling him. If he rejects any of it then he's probably thinking about not getting back together. But MOST likely he will be all flirty back at you and yeah, you'll get back together.
2007-03-22 12:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey um yes i think if you guys hang out and sort out all ur problems ten yes you will definately get back together and if you really like each other then you will have a good relationship with him. so make sure u hang out with this guy and dont rush trying to get back together unless you know its time.
2007-03-22 12:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reason you broke up in the first place.
2007-03-22 12:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by irrefutabledevotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends of why yall broke up inthe first place but from what i see i thinkyall willbecause he did say that imissed u
2007-03-22 12:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u brake up wit him if u still like him. see if he feels the same about you try flurtin wit him and see where that leeds you and give him a little himts that you still like him!
2007-03-22 12:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by It's barbie bytch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is the point to this? i mean can u read? ur SUPPOSED TO ASK A QUESTION. not sit here and tell us your all about ur lovelife. we DON'T CARE. we just want a question. this is not for writing blogs.
2007-03-22 12:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋