Lately, I've been getting to know a guy that I like but there's some things I don't get and is driving me crazy and confusing.
I remember when, I hungout with him, and my 2 other friends, and I was asking him a lot of personal questions like what he was interested in (hobbies, colour, animal, movies, bithday, etc) And, that he should ask me questions as well. He said "I don't like asking questions"
The thing about this I don't get is that, today, he asked me about an assignment for school and when it was due and that's it. He never and doesn't ask me personal stuff.
Does this mean, he's not interested in me, or that he is, but he's shy and nervous? or, isn't ready yet? and just want to be friends for now?
2007-03-22 12:49:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the look of things now, I think he is interested in me, since, we talked a bit more alone today and on the bus, he was standing near me and then I told him to sit across from me as well.
2007-03-22 12:52:46 · update #1
Another thing I don't get is that, he's not shy talking to me, but he doesn't ask me personal stuff.... I guess, he's not ready and is shy and nervous.
2007-03-22 12:55:34 · update #2
One more thing, today, we talked a bit more alone, which was good.
2007-03-22 13:15:01 · update #3
Just to make this clear, we're not even together or anything, we're just friends. In a way, I kinda want to get to know him more and have a relationship with him...
2007-03-30 09:55:30 · update #4
We are all different. That is the way he is. If you like him keep at it. One thing is certain... if he did not like you you have known it already. So be patient. DON'T SHOW TOO MUCH INTEREST just enough.
2007-03-30 11:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels uncomfortable askin u personal questions. he may feel as though hes "prying" n2 ur personal life. tell him about urself! dont recite a long practiced speech. but jus a lil at a time. b like hey. what did u say ur fav color was? ... oh really? thats cool! mines... bla bla bla.. jus start it off like that. limit it 2 like 3 qs a day. dont make him feel like hes takin a test or something. jus casual qs. nothin 2 personal.
2007-03-30 12:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just respectful of ladies such as yourself...and doesnt feel that it is right to ask anything personal of you...and maybe if you like him and wish to be more than just friends, you should tell him that you want to hang out with him some time ...and that you are interested in him and dont mind sharing some of your personal info with him...
hope this helps..
2007-03-30 19:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This simply means he enjoys in your company but do not want to marry at the moment.
2007-03-30 14:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by laxmi kumar n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the guy is just contemplating or maybe he is pretending. some are like that. He want to know who you are. keep on going with him, one day, he will open up.
2007-03-22 20:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by honeydistrict 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a different approach. Rather than listening to you answer questions about yourself, he rather get to know you by "seeing instead of believing".
2007-03-22 20:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mista R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all he want to be alone with you before he goes telling all his personal info in front of your mates......give him time, he will get there...
2007-03-22 20:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
different people have different personality, especially boys are unlike gals trying to know all personal stuff straightaway. i dunno whether hes shy or nervous, but since u two talk, it sounds all normal. u should tak it slow.
2007-03-22 22:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well do wat u want i think hes just shy so just hold up and see wat happens good luck ok
2007-03-30 19:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋