my ex fiancee still wants to be in my life ,but i only want him as a friend,but he calls me only to hang out and have sex with m,e and i dont want that so i stop calling did i do something wrong.
2007-03-22 12:41:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you didn't. If he's only gonna use you for a booty call then why give him the priviledge? Once you stop making yourself available to him, he'll start to realize that you've lost interest and he'll eventually move on. Hope this helps.
2007-03-22 12:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's not your ex fiancee, that's the bride, the groom is fiance. now that he has that out of the way. you only did something wrong if your body starts aching for the sex and he cuts you off completely. it's hard to start something new when you are still doing the old things. you have to kill something to bring life to something new. you can rarely be friends with someone you have had sex with, you will always want to bump nasties with them at one point or the other. maybe you just want to hold on as friends because you know you can always get laid in a pinch. a security blanket if you will.
2007-03-22 19:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't say you did anything wrong but there is something left for you to do. If you really only want him as a friend. Specifically tell him that. confront him about it, and say that if he can't just be friends, then you don't want him in your life at all. So he'll have to settle for just being friend or not have you in his life at all. Tell him he needs to move on. that you've already done it, and he'll eventually find another great girl who will love him more than you ever did.
2007-03-22 19:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wanted the perks of being with you without actually having to be with you. Since he didn't want to respect your decision to just be friends, you were right in cutting off contact. He is your ex for a reason. Move on and give him a chance to do the same.
2007-03-22 19:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there a reason he's your ex. and he still has attachments to you some times you have to let go or even push them away. if he's your ex and your still having sex with him that makes a sl"t, is that who you want to be?
2007-03-22 19:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT. All men want a girl they can hang out with & have good sex. You really need to open your eyes to reality. ALL MEN WANT SEX. PERIOD. WHAT IN THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU???
2007-03-22 19:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but when you made it known that you were not going be used like that, is probably why he has stopped calling you.
2007-03-22 19:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with your ex then yes, you gave the impression that it's okay.
2007-03-22 19:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a jerk... and you have no business still sleeping with him!! Let him go and move on please. No more phone calls/bootycalls. You're setting yourself up to get hurt
2007-03-22 19:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutley nothin he not who u want 2 marry if he just want u 4 sex thank goodness u did not marry him wat a jerk
2007-03-22 19:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by lilmissyin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋