my boyfriend that i am suppose to marry sat ,but we have no money . we want to have the wedding nexct year.but the problem is he wont get a job . what should i do.
2007-03-22 12:44:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loves you, and wants to marry you, he will go out and get a job. If he refuses, he may not be the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Do you want to support him all of your life?? What about future children?? Have a serious talk with him!!
2007-03-22 12:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and most importantly, CALL OFF THIS WEDDING!!!!
Secondly, you need to have a SERIOUS talk with your boyfriend. Girl, love alone does not pay the rent. If you don't have a man who is willing to contribute emotionally, spiritually, physically, and FINANCIALLY to your future together, then you don't even have a man, let alone a future husband.
2007-03-22 12:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...he won't get a job and he's not rich and you guy's have no money......What is the darn excuse..?
So if you guy's get married is this what you want to deal with when you guy's are married..?
Marriage will not MAKE him do anything he doesn't already want to do.............That's like saying If I keep these baby he will have to stay with me................RUN as FAST as YOU can
You won't have to tell a real man what to do because he either already did it..... or is doing it.........
....................AND DON'T LOOK BACK
2007-03-22 12:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u want to marry a loser? Love is not everything trust me
2007-03-22 12:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Money first. ------ Love comes second....
Im so sorry.. x
2007-03-22 12:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Point 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋