Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

I am going to Moscow in a few weeks to visit my girlfriend's family. We have been together for quite some time and we are thinking about getting married. I have never met nor seen her family and her family has never seen me. They have no idea that I'm Asian. I am worried her family will not approve of me because I am Asian. Do I have anything to worry about? I know some Russian can be very discreminating and I have not had the nerve to ask my girlfriend if her family might potentially be discreminating towards me.

2007-03-22 11:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by jenzwatt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He seems indifferent with her now, and he's been the love of my life for ages.
Why dosen't he just break up with her..
He sometimes gives me signs that he likes me, but others that he hates me, what's wrong?.
I'm nice to him, and suddenly he starts acting really dismissive of me, and sometimes he just smiles at me warmly, deep into my eyes.
Is it just an ilusion that he maybe likes me secretly?? if not, then why dosen't he break up with her and tell me??.
Oh I feel like crap.
oxox, thanks.

2007-03-22 11:57:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianclub and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-03-22 11:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do i get talking to her without sounding:

1. Cheesy
2. Sleazy
3. Like a rapist

Ideally i would like to know a way of initiating a "natural" conversation with her - i dont want to say something that sounds forced, like: "Why we do it to ourselves!" or "It never... gets... any...... easier".

Thanks for your help!

2007-03-22 11:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by bobby t 3 in Singles & Dating

they seem to exude a confidence but are still just as shy as the next girl. i love it. only problem is that i love talking to them and flirting but their husbands and older guys seem to have a problem with it and think im hitting on them. i find girls my age immature and am yet to find someone my own age on the same level. what do i do?

2007-03-22 11:55:57 · 13 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 11:55:57 · 17 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Weddings

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianclub and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-03-22 11:55:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 11:55:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few months ago I was trying to get along with a girl who really liked me (she flirted with me a lot) and she knew I really liked her too (I also told her that). Well anyway, this didn't last long (by that point I really liked her) and she had started acting like a b****... she was just commenting on things I do while I was with me friends and she had even slapped me for no reason (in kind of a mean way while I was with my friends) and I really don't know why she did it......and that only reason I never talked to her about these things is that I had decided to stop giving her attention.
Well anyway, I deserve some self respect so I started ignoring her a few weeks ago and now she acts as if nothing had happend and tries to talk to me here and there (I still don't pay lots of attention to her even though I still got lots of feelings for her)...

Well what's going on with her?

2007-03-22 11:55:14 · 1 answers · asked by Pro90 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know any UNIQUE and CUTE quotes/poem that is short and sweet which I can incorporate into my save-the-date wedding magnets? (FOr instance, "We have set the dATE, and we want you there to celebrATE!"

2007-03-22 11:55:11 · 5 answers · asked by Princess K 2 in Weddings

I am currently in Iraq. I have been gettting some info from home. Some from my family, her family, my friends and her friends. Oh, and people from the area I am based. She never stays home. She was supposed to move in with her mom, but she got there and changed her mind. Went back to NC and got us another place. She has nothing to do with the people back home and only knows a handful of people in NC. She used to send me packages all the time. Not anymore. She used to send me letters ALL the time. Not anymore. She got a cell through someone else . The phone bill has been running $400 bucks a month. I asked for a copy of the bill- there is a phone number on there almost a thousand times. They text each other all the way through the night. That's why the bill is so high. I called it - a man. People have asked her questions and she tells different people different things. She does not answer her family and friends' phone calls. She thinks I have no idea what is going on.

2007-03-22 11:54:01 · 57 answers · asked by marine_owens 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Other than a paper round....

2007-03-22 11:53:58 · 16 answers · asked by Goldie 1 in Family

is it normall to be 17 years old and have never gone out with a girl or kissed a girl.And if i do get a girlfried would she think thats weird

2007-03-22 11:53:29 · 7 answers · asked by airiv311 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so what do you do in this situation?
We are getting married out of state in Florida. Obviously most everyone wont be able to come to the ceremony, but do we invite everybody anyways? If so, how would you word something like that? Then we are having a reception/party here at home at a later date. Do I do a wedding invite and the reception invite together? Seperate? Or JUST a reception invite?

2007-03-22 11:53:14 · 8 answers · asked by snailysnal 4 in Weddings

I read about a man saying that his GF had smaller ones and hence he wasn't attracted, so he cheated on her with a more endowed girl. :-I That made me mad. Guys be honest!

2007-03-22 11:53:13 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. once my mate said oh she 4 got me and he was there and he was like oh do you mean my cherelle i know

2007-03-22 11:52:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what do you think is the question

I've been living with my boyfriend for 7 months and his mom lives with him meaning the house is under his name. I cant wait to save my money and move out. I feel like a prisoner here. First my car had been sitting in the driveway for a week and some how out of thin air I got a flat tire and my mother in law was the first one to know. I know one of them did it because my boyfriend’s hobby is working on cars and all his tools are only one foot away where my car is parked. He also once did something to my tire so I wont leave the house. I don’t think its fair I am paying for the trust issues they have because of what his ex caused.



My mother came over to the house for the second time so the moms can chitchat and get to know each other. The next day my bf tells me his mom said to him that my mother asked if whether my boyfriend owned the house.
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2007-03-22 11:51:04 · 10 answers · asked by eurasia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering if any one had any signs that you like someone?

You know what I'm talking about.

2007-03-22 11:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by Griffin 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that confidence is one of the sexiest things about a woman? If so, then why? I don't see why.

2007-03-22 11:50:13 · 9 answers · asked by wifey 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend just can back from Africa she got marry there through their court system Iam not should if it real or not

2007-03-22 11:49:59 · 4 answers · asked by keena 2 in Weddings

Im 21y and i never had a boyfriend. its not that im ugly or something! Actualy im sweet and ppl tell me im pretty, but when some guy come and talk to me then i just step out and say no and after that i feel guilty because some of them are really cute.
and now i feel so unsecure because i never had a byf and i turning off guys just because of that(i feel shame and worry what they gonna think about that).

2007-03-22 11:49:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know how to even say hi to him!!!

2007-03-22 11:49:07 · 13 answers · asked by chronosrosette 1 in Friends

i have lived with my aunt for the past 10 years. when i was 6 my mom and 2 little sisters moved 2 virginia but i stayed here in pennsylvania with my aunt. i barely ever get to see my mom because she doesn't come up 2 visit very often and my aunt never wants 2 go 2 virginia 2 visit her. i really want 2 go live with my mom but i dont want 2 make my aunt feel like i dont like living with her because thats no where near being true. what's a good way 2 tell my aunt that i want 2 live with my mom without her getting mad or feeling like i hate living here with her??

2007-03-22 11:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Family

i am 41 am i pass it .......would it be wrong to look for love

2007-03-22 11:47:57 · 7 answers · asked by susie 2 in Singles & Dating

I notice it on television, especially the talk shows. Somebody will be talking about it for whatever the reason and the camera pans the audience .. and everybody is just grinning like crazy!

2007-03-22 11:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by rare2findd 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so my boyfriend wasnt mad about a party hes mad about a rumor(we are 15 and will be 16 in september and augest) and one of his supposed-to-be "best friends" told him that im cheating on him!!!!!!! i would never do that but he said that he still needs to think...he said hes not trying to start a fight with me but he asked me what i would do if my best friend said my bf was cheating on me(so i would understand) and i understand...but how can i re-assure him im NOT cheating?

2007-03-22 11:45:55 · 6 answers · asked by tinkerbell 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a 14 year old girl and can burp really loud and long. Some guys are know think it's awesome, while other guys think it's gross. What do you think? Would you be impressed or disgusted?

2007-03-22 11:45:49 · 3 answers · asked by charley 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-22 11:45:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like my boyfriend is crowding me.And I also like this other boy that goes to church with me.Should I break up with him!!!!!!

2007-03-22 11:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by Angel K 2 in Singles & Dating

he was honest with tellin me that he was going to have it with her last year.weve been together for 4 monthes

2007-03-22 11:45:01 · 5 answers · asked by suga coatz 3 in Singles & Dating