I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianclub and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.
2007-03-22 11:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well no matter what mood you are in - you are cheating your husband and your two sons. you are cheating them from the truth - a truth you MUST tell them. i understand that you are in "love" and things feel great with this new relationship - but it is being trapped by the fact that YOU ARE STILL MARRIED. i have been on the other end of a cheating partner, and it is something that can be prevented with simple HONESTY!!! no matter what the reason - you are not IN LOVE with your husband anymore. so that, and ONLY that should be your reason for being honest with him. he, as well as your sons, THEY DESERVE ATLEAST THAT MUCH!! As far as DESSERTING them??? DONT YOU THINK YOU HAVE ALREADY - CONSIDERING YOU PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES??? it is better fopr everyone in the long run for you to come out of the "closet" and be honest with your family, your new friend, as well as yourself.
2007-03-22 12:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the woman who gave birth to me left me when I was 8 months for another man.
The gay feeling is a mind trick. Its not normal. Gay people are still trying to find acceptance and fight against nature. If gay was normal then they would be able to reproduce.
Do you love your sons more or the other woman? You would hurt them by leaving and put them in an awkward position.
Do the counseling before making a hasty decision please..
Another thing these relationships dont always last long.
See how she is trying to get you away from your family. Well it repeats, Someone will take her away and you be left alone.
2007-03-22 15:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave your husband and go with that girl,if you are going to be unhappy with your husband.But the problem is that you have 2 sons.It's going to be really sad to accepted.Also if you are catholic,that isn't right,cause divorcing and then getting married again is a sin.
2007-03-22 12:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have asked this question 5 times,do you keep asking til you get the answer you want to justify leaving your kids?
Never an reason to leave your kids,ok if you don't want your husband then tell him but a mother doesn't abandon her kids
2007-03-22 12:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by tuppenybitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your kids are of any importance than you should think about them too. you used the word "desert" and that's just what you'd do. your husband is a different issue.
2007-03-22 12:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is plain sad. you cheated on your husband.
just forget that chick u met. you never know how she might turn out after u meet her. just stay with ur husband n kids.
imagine what ur kids would have to go through. sad,sad,sad.
2007-03-22 12:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please, get into counseling. You owe that much to your husband and sons...you made a commitment and now you want out...you're really confused.
Grace
2007-03-22 12:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she make you hot
does she love you
2007-03-22 12:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes please leave them & spare them any more suffering than needed they & u dont deserve it
2007-03-22 12:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋