Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

I need some opions, I was married in november last year to my parter who iv been with since i was 13. (now 30.5)I am friends with my girlfriends boyfriend. ( she went through painful split from her husband who cheated on her 3.5 years ago) . He is a older guy 41. Buy the problem is I am constantly thinking about him. He comes to me for advice about my gf! and we just hit it off so well. We have so much in common, as him and my gf dont! We have coffee once a week to catch up! My husband knows of this as they used to work together all the time and knew each other before him and I did.. I cant stop thinking of this person. I dont know what to do, Do i tell this male (considering he is a friend) how I feel or Do I just push my feelings and thoughts aside, I have always been the level headed straight one that everyone comes to for advice but now that its my turn , im stuck! I love my husband but this other man is totally differnt to my husband ! Please if you need more info just ask,!

2007-03-22 11:44:55 · 8 answers · asked by hungem76 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married this summer and it is formal. I'm definitely going to have tuxes for me (obviously), the best man, groomsmen, future father-in-law, and ring bearer. However, I wasn't sure about my dad, stepdad, and my future wife's stepfather. If there was no money involved, then fine, everyone can get a tux. However, my dad is poor and has not been a regular part of my life. Also, my stepdad has helped me out more than my dad, but I'd hate for him to have one and not my real father.

I read everywhere that for a formal wedding, the groom's father must have one, but I think it's a waste of money for two stepfathers, and my dad to rent one when all they'll be doing is walking in and sitting in the front row. I don't understand that. Please don't give me the pictures speech either. It's not like they'll come in street clothes. They'll still be in their "sunday best."

What do you think?

2007-03-22 11:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by jasonthejedi 2 in Weddings

ok people say im handsome so dont take this of me thinking or think i know im handsome ok
im using my big brothers account ok dont tell him plz! anyways i have a crush on the preetyest girl in my grade im in 5th ok she is in my clas im knew im a umm lets just say gringo lol or american and moved to panama and she used to have a crush on me and i did on her but i am way to shy ok and know she likes this other kid wich is my friend and i like her still im her friend kinda and im her bests friends friend and well i dont know what to do help what should i do

2007-03-22 11:43:19 · 8 answers · asked by santino 2 in Singles & Dating

as hurt as i am? broke up with my bf after a long relationship [ he was also my first true love] & and after 6 months still can`t get over it? anyone else? i feel alone and helpless. i still love him yet i cant figure out a way to get him back. we used to fight , but at the end always made up. i don`t even know what happened. its been 6 months & still i cant stop thinking about him. HELP !!

2007-03-22 11:42:52 · 8 answers · asked by babyz a queen ♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you save whatever is left from your dignity after being broken up with if you have already begged, called, e-mailed and acted like on dumb desperate chick after your boyfriend of three years decided he doesn't want to be with you anymore?

2007-03-22 11:42:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 11:42:20 · 3 answers · asked by stacy a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 11:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by jamaicangirl 1 in Friends

We has a class together. As we are entering class sometimes I'll be entering before her and hold the door till she gets it ans she says thanks and smiles. We have a class in another building on campus right after this class and to she held the door open for me when I was right behind her and I looked at her and said thank you and enthusiastically she said your welcome. Then after my class I was going down the hallway when she came out of the bathroom. I was talking on my cell phone and she heard my voice and looked over at me and when she realized i was talking on my cell phone and not talkiing to her she continued to look into my eyes and I did hers unitl we passed each other in the hall. While looking at her i winked at her and smiled While looking at me she smiled at me in a way I haven't seen do before. After that I got this feeling all over.
Was she saying I want to be friends? Was she flirting with me? What should I do tomorrow?

2007-03-22 11:41:50 · 12 answers · asked by k45 3 in Singles & Dating

i found a really nice freindly woman with a good head on her shoulders,She has been through a rough divorce and although she has dated since, i find her almost made for me.It's weird.I went through the same.she has dated a couple of cops and i'm like the opposite as a cop,i do not commit crimes or anything but i'm a mans man.she gave me her e-mail address and is asking all about me.alot of questions.I'm flattered,but should i be.I find her to be freindly to everyone.How do i know if she likes me like that?

2007-03-22 11:41:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say a guy and girl really like eachother a lot but they live far away. the girl happens to be going to college near the guy in 5 months.

for what reason might the guy stop talking to her?

2007-03-22 11:41:16 · 13 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend thinks shes really ugly. her... http://i5.tinypic.com/2vtyued.jpg
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tell the truth so i can give her proof.

2007-03-22 11:40:30 · 1 answers · asked by ktaylor 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this guy that really likes me and asked me to go with him. My mom and dad think i shouldn't because he's older and because i might get pressured to do things that i will regret later on. But I think i'm mature enough to have a guy and take care of those responsiblities myself and if i would need help i could ask them. I also think that i am not so easy to give in and that if i am pressured to do tose things i would not do it or break up with him. What do u think?

2007-03-22 11:40:00 · 19 answers · asked by XxEnvy_is_EverythingxX 2 in Singles & Dating

The only reason I ask this is because I have a hard time getting dates even though I'm "supposedly" very good-lookin. But when I see girls out at clubs or coffee shops or whatever they never give me any sort of indication that they're interested in me (I won't be the first to approach a girl cause I'm a bit shy so I try to wait for a smile or something first). Some girls in the past have told me I'm "intimidating"....but I don't really know get what they mean by that??

I'm 24 years old, 5'9", slim and toned, tanned, dark hair, green eyes, dress very well, a little shy though I try to act confident, really sweet and romantic, i can play the piano, im really good at sports, and can have fun doing pretty much anything. So why can't I find a girl? :-(

2007-03-22 11:39:57 · 5 answers · asked by No joke 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a twinless twin meaning I had an identical twin brother who died at a very young age. He died from SIDS. Everytime I think about the loss of my brother I have mixed feelings. I feel as though he is still with me but not. The yearing for a brother figure pused me into all types of friendships I knew were no good for me. I wanted some type of brotherly figure to replace my own. I began to drink and use drugs heavy as I began to get older. I though as I got older the pain of that loss would lessen but to no avail. I cant get over the fact the my brother died and left me here in this place. Sometimes I feel really lonley but there have been times were I was supposed to die but I was saved from being shot. It feels like my purpose here is for something greater but I am still searching to fil a void thats missing in my life. Its like I walk through life not even a whole person but a half

2007-03-22 11:39:35 · 3 answers · asked by citizenparticular 2 in Family

Every day i see another question about mother in laws I personally get on great with mine, may be I have been lucky.? Does any one else actually have a decent mother in law?

2007-03-22 11:39:28 · 10 answers · asked by squawinpants 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i hate to sound lame, but since its beginning to get hot again, the ladies are warming up to me a heck-of-a lot all the time. they werent like that during the winter. what im trying to ask is, does the weather affect arousal in men and women too?

2007-03-22 11:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do u ??

2007-03-22 11:38:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plus.......any romantic, heart melting details!?!?!

2007-03-22 11:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so basically i really like this guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me too. my friend introduced us like a month ago and we have been talking on and off ever since and seen each other like twice.. which could be a problem. but anyway he was talking to my friend the other day and told her that he liked me and wanted to ask me out but that i don't talk enough. i'm pretty shy and not one to talk a lot on the phone and he believes that if i don't talk then it could form a problem in our relationship later on... so basically i'm screwed and he hasn't called me in like a week... what should i do??

2007-03-22 11:37:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am really nice and i don't do anything mean to other people. so why would girls treat me as if i was a loser and a jerk(this is at my school)

2007-03-22 11:37:22 · 7 answers · asked by Maximus prime3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 11:36:45 · 11 answers · asked by lil-yoel24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This seems to be happening a lot lately and I know that when you feel like something is only happening to you it's usually farthest from the truth. So is any one else out there suffering too?

2007-03-22 11:36:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been married for five years, we get along great, we have even learned to fight without to many "cheep shots". we have one daughter of our own, another on the way, and we had basically adopted our five year old niece. we'er a growing happy family. laugh together play together, cry together.. but lately, i've been really depressed, i know i am pregnant, and that likely has alot to do with it. most of it centers around my mother in law (who i love she's a nice lady) but its like, she's decided to be the mom of my family, and i am a stay home mom, and what else do i have but to take care of my family? she's constantly trying to take my daughter, (not my niece who lives with us) saying she's trying to help relieve my burden, well then why did i have kids at all? i know she just wants to help so i just ignore it, but today when my husband came home from the dentist, i offered him some warm soup to eat, he declined, his mother two seconds later, offered him, warm soup, he thanked her and

2007-03-22 11:36:03 · 1 answers · asked by Kitterkat 5 in Family

I have cheated on my fiance and he throws it in my face in anger then drops to his knees in tears and says that he doesnt understand?? Why is it so hard for him to accept that i was simply a victim of circumstances!!! I was out with some friends and i started making out with this guy and we ended up having sex!!! I mean i told him what happened he didnt have to find out on his own so technically I was honest!!! What do i have to do to mend his broken heart and make him believe that it was a 1 time mistake!!! I dont want our marriage to start like this!!

2007-03-22 11:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-22 11:35:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi its my 19th birthday today and my boyfriend mate is going manchester tomorrow and said to me and my boyfriend to come but i dont have id so i said to my boyfriend that he could go and he said no cause it is my birthday and we didnt go out so i said you go out with your mate and then he said what are you going to do i said sit in and he said pk what can i do tell him i dont want hm to go now cause i get paraiond when he his out with his mates and i think alsorts like is he cheating and that so what should i say please help me thank you

2007-03-22 11:33:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like one girl and when i said i liked her i didnt talk to her anymore
But now i have decided to talk again.
so i put a message in MSN (in the box of personal message) saying that i have to talk to her.
She came to msn and i she didnt said nothing... or she didnt noticed...
Is there another way to make her read it without being by msn or something?

2007-03-22 11:33:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is apathetic when it comes to the kids and apathetic when it comes to his marriage. Do all middle aged men go through this? Does he need help? He has been this way for years. He refuses to go anywhere except work or do anything with the family and just sits in front of the TV when he gets home. The kids need a father and she needs a husband at least some times! What causes this? Is he bored with family life? What should she do? They have 5 kids.

2007-03-22 11:32:46 · 1 answers · asked by Marie 7 in Marriage & Divorce

everytime I head over to my in laws house they call me a alcoholic/drunk yet they always have a drink in thier hands, I however only have a social drink yes I get drunk but only three days out of the whole year! these two have a drink everyday! and the pompus asses I have for a brother and sister in law always talk about me behind my back! so I asked my wife "why do they think I'm a drunk"? she said she often talks to them and jokes about it.........then she laughs! mind you my sister inlaw has personally kicked me in my balls, slapped me in the face and a host of other "jokes" she unleashed upon me. the brother is a complete joke of a man a real wuss, nuf said. and my lovely inlaws even tried shoving a drink in my face after going on a rant about how I happend to be a drunk, and did this on christmas eve at a party at thier house. so on the way home after thinking about everything they have done to me I called her brother sister and mother a bunch of C*NTS, was I wrong for doing so?

2007-03-22 11:31:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This question's background!

(1) When a widowed mother pleads his son for a cataract surgery her well-to-do son asks, "You are sixty! Why a cataract surgery for you now?

(2) A son to his old and infirm parents!
"I am not your only son! Why don't you go and stay with them too? Can they escape this burden?"

(3) The son-in-law's argument! "Is it not an unwritten law that parents should never stay for long in their daughters' house? Ask your parents to go and stay with any of their children! Why should we bother about them"?

(4) I know of a family who regularly go to Church on Sundays; but do not even spend an hour with their widower father.

Surprised? I have quoted real incidents! I was also witness to a son scolding and abusing his 80-year old mother while she was carrying food to her husband. This son frequently wept when he too became a victim of neglect later.

Please look around and reply after introspection.
Let 'Yahoo Answers' make some reflect on this!

2007-03-22 11:31:00 · 25 answers · asked by Nimit 2 in Family