how do you get your dignity back from being dumped after you acted desperate and psycho?

Question

how do you save whatever is left from your dignity after being broken up with if you have already begged, called, e-mailed and acted like on dumb desperate chick after your boyfriend of three years decided he doesn't want to be with you anymore?

Answer 1

Oh my god, are you me? I did the same thing with my boyfriend of four years, honey, and I regret it. Not just because I acted foolishly, but because I acted foolishly over someone who wasn't worth it--and neither is your guy. There's really no way to do it. The best you can do is just conduct yourself with your otherwise normal dignity and restraint if you ever see him, don't mention him to other people, just generally pretend like he doesn't exist. Don't apologize--because that won't really matter, if you acted as crazy as I did--just be sane from now on. Good luck.:)

Answer 2

wow... after 3 years, I don't blame you! It must have been very hard.. I've been with a guy for less than a year and loved him and basically acted desperate too... I was not desperate, and neither you are. I could get someone else by tomorrow but I wanted HIM. It hurts that HE did NOT want me ANYMORE... He did everything possible to get me and then dumped me for no appearent reason . Do I feel bad? Yes, because he was not worth my trials to save what I thought was our love.. Your dignity is not gone unless you let it go, and since you decided to get it back you're half way there.

First step: Take a deep breath, cry about it once for good and then promise yourself you'll never let any son of a ***** hurt you or break your heart again.

2nd step: don't blame yourself, you were sweet, lovely, you tried to save the relationship, chances are he thinks he's a big of a deal now, but guess what, the day you'll stop giving him that attention he got after breaking up, his ego will get a big crash. Ad all of a sudden, you'll have that little something that attracts him that he don't know what it is ...

3rd rule: remember: what goes around comes back around baby

4th rule: Now be mature. You see him? Act like if nothing at all happened. Don't show your unhappiness at all. Be beautiful, glowing, sexy and know your worth. If and only if someone asks you what happened, go like: oh well didn't click, you know it's still an experience, euuuhh , I wish him all the best. Keep it short and say it with dignity.


5th rule: from now on, your kiss will be to that who will be your prince, the one guy that treats you like a princess. Don't let any mother ******* asshole hurt you like that..


Good luck to you and everyone. Keep your head up girl :)

Answer 3

I can see why you acted the way you did its called love and at times it sucks. You will get your dignity back start by dealing with the breakup whether it be writing how you feel in a book, or doing something you enjoy. Three years is a long time to be in a relationship and it hurts and your hurt. WE all do things like you did when we are in love and dont want it to end. It takes time but what goes around will come back to bite him where it hurts. Go out with friends keep busy whatever works and in time this will be something to laugh about

Answer 4

you forget about him. if you see him around you act like nothing is wrong. and he begin your crusade to conquer another sexier guy's heart. lmao. just don't make it obvious either, but go for another guy, don't play the "when he looks at you be all over the other guy" card just be subtle and be yourself around your friends and other guys. it doesn't matter how you acted ( but after three years most people would act that way, it's normal) just keep on with your life. the most important thing, don't let him see that you're wounded. keep going strong and just forget it. i know you may not think so now, but maybe it's for the better. and think on the positive side.. if he dumped you, he's a loser, but now you're free. go out at night, have some fun, and find yourself a hot guy. good luck =)

Answer 5

Honestly you need to know you are not the only one who has done this. What you do is you just move forward. That's all. Get your hair done in a new look, change your make-up and get a new perfume and forget about that "psycho chick". Best wishes.

Answer 6

Admit you were wrong and apologize for being like that and move on and try not to repeat these mistakes next time. It will get easier as time goes by if you try not to create drama for yourself. Alot of people have done the same thing and are doing fine and you will be fine too. keep your chin up. Besides if he sees you happy that will be excellent revenge.

Answer 7

I have to agree with the be mean and never talk to him again. Eventually you'll find the one. Almost every girl does this. You're okay. It's natural lol. Get over him.

Answer 8

a million.Run do not walk to the closest telephone and get in touch with a hotline. 2. call 911 ASAP and tell the operator to deliver around a motor vehicle for you you prefer to be taken directly to the closest psychological facility. 3.do not attempt against ever back. 4.you have already placed a scare in those damaging human beings on right here. 5 stay removed from any dry cleansing shops. 6.do not attempt against ever back (on the threat of repeating myself) 7.Take all your meds. because of the fact the remarkable wide-unfold practitioner says. 8.make helpful there's a lot of water in any pool you're making plans on diving into. 9.opposite all the peepholes on all your doorways. 10.performing psycho isn't necessary for you're already psycho.

Answer 9

i know how u feel i am going through the same thing to after 11long years he decide to cheat on me and had a baby with another girls

Answer 10

dont worry babes, we have all been there.

start by deleting his numbers, email addies etc.

remember your dignity isnt lost hunni, you just think it is because you are in shock due to the way you have been treated. you have been dealt these cards, its up to you how you play them.

now start deleting him from your life.