I have cheated on my fiance and he throws it in my face in anger then drops to his knees in tears and says that he doesnt understand?? Why is it so hard for him to accept that i was simply a victim of circumstances!!! I was out with some friends and i started making out with this guy and we ended up having sex!!! I mean i told him what happened he didnt have to find out on his own so technically I was honest!!! What do i have to do to mend his broken heart and make him believe that it was a 1 time mistake!!! I dont want our marriage to start like this!!
2007-03-22 11:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are not a victim, you knew exactly what you are doing and you have to be accountable for your actions, cheating always hurts the other person because you have betrayed him and went outside of the relationship, if he were smart you would no longer be his fiance and he would find another girl who is more deserving to be in a relationship with him.....
2007-03-22 14:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, my friend, but you are not a VICTIM of circumstance. You have always held the power to say NO. Kissing another guy and perhaps making out with another guy can be forgivable if you realize what you're doing is a mistake and immediately stop it. But letting it continue to the point that you have sex is completely different. That, added to the fact that you seem so completely non-chalant about it... no it doesn't bode well for your future as a couple. If you truly want to save your relationship, I would suggest that you go into couples counseling. Perhaps then, you can work on your issues and what made you cheat. And it may help him to forgive you. I can't guarantee that this will fix your relationship, but it could help.
2007-03-22 19:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You violated his trust. When you are truly with someone you are making a commitment. You did fufill your end of the bargain and telling the truth to him, while good, was your way of making yourself less accountable. What you did is morally wrong. I am sorry, but that is the way it is. Far too often we complain about men being scum but when a woman does it, we are just as guilty. If you are already cheating before you have even married, you ought to think twice about getting married.
2007-03-22 18:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tina L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should not marry him! If you would cheat on him than you do not love him. You just don't do that to someone you love. Do yourselves both a favor and call off the wedding. You are either too young and immature to get married or too selfish!
2007-03-22 18:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the cheater, it's serious, long lasting, and charactger
revealing. get out of the rut or experience the fruits of
your labors
2007-03-22 18:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical Skanky rationalization of a skanky situation by a prototypical skank
2007-03-22 20:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by Richard Head 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He deserves better!
2007-03-22 18:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What if it happened to you?
2007-03-22 18:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by junglist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn girl, are you serious?
2007-03-22 18:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by ~Miss~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋