Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

Well, I know i'm not a whore. But I couldn't think of the word for it. So here's what's up.

I'm 15 and about once a month I like maybe 2-3 diffrent guys. Some people were saying I need to figure out who I actually like. I don't see anything wrong with it. I'm only 15 why should I be tied down to a guy? I know a lot of girls think being in a serious relationship is the only thing that matters right now. But I like being single and being free. Is there anything wrong with that? I don't have sex with these guys, it's just a crush.. then eventually moving on and finding someone better. You know?

Does this make me like.. a whore.. or easy? Or something?

2007-03-22 11:15:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...the basics-I'm 29 been married for 10 years now.
the problem:I no longer am sexually attracted to my wife but she is still very sexually attracted to me.Don't get me wrong,I love her very much and do want to stay married to her,but I'm not sure about what to do about the sexual attraction thing.I could never see myself cheating on her with another woman although more increasingly I find myself thinking about just that.
I'm not sure if I should say something to her about me not having high sexual feelings toward her anymore or not.
we have tried alot of experimentation in the bedroom. things like toys and those types of things,but still when we do have intercourse I never get off.Is this normal after being married for ten years?suggestions please.....

2007-03-22 11:14:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The guy that i like is practically my best friend...but the thing is i found out that he likes me and i want to take it to the next level but im still worried that if i go too fast it will mess up our whole friendship and i can stand not having him as a boyfriend, but i really dont want to loose him...he says he wants to get to know me better but i dont want him to like me as "Just a friend"...im really confused about it all. What should i do?

2007-03-22 11:14:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think you are:
Overweight and want to lose some,
Under weight and need to put some on,
or
Are happy just they way you are??

Please add if you are MALE or FEMALE
and YOUR AGE!!

thank you

2007-03-22 11:13:09 · 6 answers · asked by cherpychick 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the most important thing in your life , that makes you feel glad to be alive?

2007-03-22 11:12:50 · 13 answers · asked by honey xx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bestfriend thinks that i am replacing her with my boyfriend. my boyfriend and i have gotten a little closer and she thinks that mean i am going to drop her off the face of the earth. she is my best friend, why would i do that to her? and everytime i tell her, im not going to replace her she finds something that i have done or havent done to nit-pick at with me. like today i was hugging my b/f and i didnt say bye to her until i was done hugging him. she said i didnt say bye at all! I dont kno what to do. i think she is over reacting a little. how can i prove that she will always be my best friend, but my boyfriend is my boyfriend. i love her like a sister, but she doesnt understand sometimes. what should i do? and am i really replacing her??

2007-03-22 11:11:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love always has to be so dang complicated.

Well this guy I like just broke up with his girlfriend and he is pretty upset about it, since were friends hes been telling me how bad hes feeling. Just today he sent an email to me say "ok, right now im completly rebounding from thalia (his x's name) so do you wanna go to the movies sometime?"

I dont want to be a rebound girl! He broke up, hes upset, he wants someone to be with him, so hes asking me.

I really like him though, so, what should i do?

2007-03-22 11:11:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I kind of like her but she broke up with him becuse she thinks he was cheating on her and I told her I like another girl and she does not like me back so I was wondering if I could ask her out

2007-03-22 11:11:49 · 6 answers · asked by chrisorrrobinson 2 in Singles & Dating

iF SOMEHOW YOU FOUND OUT YOU WERE GONNA DiE iN A FEW MiNUTES WHAT OR WHO WOULD BE ON YOUR MiND? PLEASE EXPLAiN GOOD DETAiLS.. I AM WRiTiNG A BOOK AND YOU WOULD BE A GOOD HELP! THANKSz!

2007-03-22 11:10:26 · 1 answers · asked by $$Brittany$$ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my 2 m8s were my m8s were ages i told 1 of their secrets 2 some people who swore they wouldnt tell but they did i said sorry, and then the boys (ant and nathan) started making fun of me about my hair sayin i looked like a lez, and i punched one of them (ant) he sed sorry we made up, i've said sorry to nathan a millkion times, and proved to him that i really am it has been 2 months now, and i feel so alone, antoni has new friends but i have no1, i feel like i have lost a brother, nathan, was just like me just as mad, and he made me laugh untill i cry, i feel so alone, like nobody loves me and nobody ever will

2007-03-22 11:10:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

@ f-ball. Athletics keep him @ school late during bb season but now that is over. He is struggling to keep his grades up,sometimes I think we put more effort into him passing that he does. To make it short, we feel like an atm. He is always asking for $. His best friends @ g-friend live in the next town and he is NEVER home. This is spring break and we havent seen him except to get $. When I say anything he says he wants to be with his friends,it doesnt mean he doesnt love us. there is so much more that i cannot get in the whole story but it seems he never wants to be home and NO hes not doing drugs, I know that for sure. Just since last friday we have given him 100.00 Haircut,buying a swimsuit,gas,eating out because hes never home. Do we just stop and say NO MORE? GET A JOB?? Or only allow so much per week and once its gone its gone or what? My husband says he's ther baby and as long as he can do for him he will but it's driving me CRAZY!!!! please help with any suggestions.......

2007-03-22 11:09:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a bffl and theres this girl who use to be her "friend" and she says she dont like her but she still wants the girl to like a a friend help!!

2007-03-22 11:09:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I broke up with actually but it wasn't because I wanted to do it. I just think he isn't ready for the type of relationship that I am. I don't want to get married yet, but I don't want to be single and sleep around either. He says he wants to try to be single and see how it feels. He isn't sure if he has made a mistake with breaking up (he wanted it too when it did happen). But yet he says stuff like "If I wanted to break up with you, I would have done it myself.".

I want to wait for him, but I also don't want to push him away by telling him that.

I can understand his want to be single and not be 19 and go from now till the day he dies being married. I wouldn't have wanted that either when I was 19. But I also dont want to lose him.

I dont know what to do?

I would love a casual relationship where we can be friends and hangout. Maybe date. But where he has his freedom, which he did have before..but whatever. Any ideas? Suggestions?
Am I wasting my time?

2007-03-22 11:09:45 · 2 answers · asked by nkbapbt 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, so theres this guy that i like, lets say his name is kevin. i'm in middle school, and a couple of days ago we had to sit alphabetticaly for our exams, and he sat right next to me. and we just started talking, and stuff like that( we never talked before), so, anyways, now that the exams r over, we go back to where we used to sit, and he doesn't sit next to me anymore. i really like him a lot, but i don't know if he likes me like that. i'm also very shy! and i don't know what 2 do. i could ask him out, and totally embarrass myself, and then it would be awkward to be friends. or i could just 4get it all. i really need ur help
p.s-nvr had a bf b4.

2007-03-22 11:07:39 · 3 answers · asked by haha =) 2 in Singles & Dating

14/f/oh i want to be spanked...but i'm too affraid to ask my parents i was wondering if anyone would do it?

2007-03-22 11:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im a teenager and sex seems 2 come up in every day life i want 2 wait 4 marriage but i also have sexual desires so......

2007-03-22 11:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by SEXI LADY 2 in Singles & Dating

He is one of the BFFs. All my friends say he likes me. His name is Bryan. Any advice on how to win him? I'd greatly appreciate it!

2007-03-22 11:06:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive gotten alot of email from people looking for relationships, is that all this website is abour?

2007-03-22 11:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by Angel eyes 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there Another step Can we take to protect our marriage against divorce. I hate to say it, but after all these years, The Beatles were wrong. Their classic hit “All You Need Is Love” is a cruel myth. Marriage takes more than love..

2007-03-22 11:05:51 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am transferring to a new city within my company. A coworker there is trying to hook me up with an acquaintance of hers. We already went to lunch once when I was there on business awhile back. I didn’t think much of it as I wasn’t planning on transferring at the time of the date. Neither a hell date nor no big fireworks. Now that I am moving the coworker is putting pressure on to see her again. That is fine, but then she tells me this girl went home from the bar with another coworker. They slept together and he was mean and sent her packing soon after they were done. Am I wrong to not want anything to do with her? How do I tell my coworker?

2007-03-22 11:05:48 · 3 answers · asked by Ned Knows 6 in Singles & Dating

Ive gotten alot of email from people looking for relationships, is that all this website is abour?

2007-03-22 11:05:48 · 1 answers · asked by Angel eyes 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Stuck in my last months of eighth grade. All the teachers packing projects in, I can deal. But I have some problems for y'all.

1. So there's this girl, and she and I were really good friends. She switched schools and got bitchy. It's cool, I hate her (don't I?) and she doesn't bother me anyore. But there's still a part of me that wants to know what I did to make her hate me. Should I find out?

2. I like this guy. He's great. Funny, sweet, cute...whole package. But he's really shy and even if he did like me he probably wouldn't ask me out. Like I said, it's cool, I can deal, we're KIDS. But should I stop liking him?

3. Remember the bitchy girl? She is BFFs with one of my friends. My friend got jealous of the bitchy girl's new, better friends. So she came to me to talk, and for 3 days we were really close and she was telling me lots of things that she shouldn't have. But now she and bitchy girl are BFFs again, and I'm not sure if she still wants to be friends anymore. What do I do????

2007-03-22 11:05:36 · 4 answers · asked by Yuggy 2 in Friends

I am in a middle of a divorce and have never cheated on my husband, I have been talking to a old lover that I have known for about 20 years and the sex was great fantstic, well the problem is we have been friends for so long and all and I have always had feeling about him and he still has feelings about me. Well here is where it gets real sticky I am going out of town and flying out by where he lives so I am going to get a room by the airport and he has offered to pay for it (Low on cash becuz of the divorce) well he wants to go out when I am down the( he is also with someone) we would always flirt and tease and say lets give it a try for old times sak, but always got away with saying no I got to get back to work or someting. I know what is going to happen and I do want it to happen but then I dont I love having the memoreis and all and besides i am afraid that it will stir up my emotions again. I really liked this guy back then but he wasnt ready to commit at the time, so what do you?

2007-03-22 11:03:48 · 2 answers · asked by ohmy 3 in Singles & Dating

How important is it for you? my bf has slept with girls, but i havent and dont want to yet, does it cause a problem in relationship? Would it for you? Will he go and find that kind of thing some where else? will he get bored with me?

Please help me, he says it doesnt matter but i dont believe him:(

2007-03-22 11:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

When she is upset, I will hold her and try to comfort her, but then the next day or so she says that holding her is not being supportive when she cries. I do not know what else to do. She can't explain what she means, except that I am not supportive. At this point, I don't even know what supportive means anymore.

2007-03-22 11:01:17 · 4 answers · asked by dattabass 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello. My fiance and I are planning on getting married in January of 2008. We live in Minnesota and so we are flying down to Florida to get married. I want to have an outdoor reception back home for my family and friends but because of the weather here, that wouldnt be possible until at least May. Is this OK? I have heard of this before but my fiance thinks its weird. Please give me your opinions!

2007-03-22 11:00:56 · 12 answers · asked by snailysnal 4 in Weddings

2007-03-22 11:00:56 · 3 answers · asked by B 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 11:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by allseeingdi 3 in Family

well...i have a g/f and we have been together for 2 months. As our relationship started everything was well but as it went on i started to notice that we were sort of splitting apart and being less affectionate. The main reason why i started being less affectionate was because i felt that she didnt like me anymore or that she lost intrest in me. Also another thing is, when ever we talk it is because i call her. I feel like i am the only one holding the relationship together. What should i do? , Is it my fault?...

2007-03-22 10:59:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why then can the state garnish my paycheck and not the deadbeat dad for when my 16 yr old was a ward of the state for a year (now 28)...I never received child support pmts but was supposed to...I asked versions of this question earlier but the answers seem to be I owe the state for clothing and feeding my son for a year BUT I never received court ordered child support when he was younger and also paid mucho in fines when he was a juvenille and his father again never paid anything

2007-03-22 10:59:25 · 3 answers · asked by csohi_10 1 in Family