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Well, I know i'm not a whore. But I couldn't think of the word for it. So here's what's up.

I'm 15 and about once a month I like maybe 2-3 diffrent guys. Some people were saying I need to figure out who I actually like. I don't see anything wrong with it. I'm only 15 why should I be tied down to a guy? I know a lot of girls think being in a serious relationship is the only thing that matters right now. But I like being single and being free. Is there anything wrong with that? I don't have sex with these guys, it's just a crush.. then eventually moving on and finding someone better. You know?

Does this make me like.. a whore.. or easy? Or something?

2007-03-22 11:15:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well, considering you don't have sex with these guys I wouldn't consider you a whore. Maybe you could be seen as a flirt. You're right, you're only 15.....enjoy your youth before it's gone. =)

2007-03-25 02:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0 0

Not at all. It actually makes you very mature... you have hormones, you recognize them, but you also realize your situation in life and the nature of your desire for relationships. A 15 year old date is most likely not going to turn into marriage, and it's the girls who believe it is that end up getting into trouble (with pregnancies abusive relationships, etc., because they believe that their man is "the only one...").
Now, if you start screwing around with all of these guys, that's a different story (not because cuddling, kissing, etc,. is wrong or makes you slutty, but because giving your body to whomever cheapens your integrity and will lower your image among your peers, which makes teen life less bearable).

2007-03-22 19:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0 0

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