Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

this girl works with me. i liked her, she liked me back.
but i try to call her few times, and she got scared or something or i don't konw what's up. so now her attitude is different, dosn't smile, only talk about work and stuff.

i was thinking maybe i should apologize to her, about phone calls i made. maybe write her a note? or leave it alone.

2007-03-22 10:43:45 · 9 answers · asked by S. 1 in Singles & Dating

We meet when his children were very small the oldest was 5 and the youngest 11 months. So we kept having problems from his x and the years went by,now its been 9years, and the mother never took the children back( she is a teacher and thinks I have to take care of them) now the father my husband tells me I have to correct them when they are wrong and help them when they need it, so the 13 year old is been on line at her moms house when she visits her(on weekends) and she's gotten on my space and started calling long distance from our home and from her cell that her dad gave to her and I checked the bills and she's been calling Miami, and contacting boys outside our state I gave her advice without screaming at her I sat down with her and told her why is not right to be soliciting boys that she doesn't know, and well she did it again .and now I got mad because she denies all of it now the boy she was talking to had his sis call our home and she cursed me out today dad still believes her

2007-03-22 10:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by sweet stuff 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think the Money in the Bank ladder match at Wrestlemania will be as good as the 4 way tag team ladder match from Armageddon, or maybe even the best ladder match ever?

2007-03-22 10:43:22 · 2 answers · asked by jm42445 5 in Family

ok so at my school they hired 2 fresh out of colledge teachers( they had been dating scince freshmen year in colledge) the guy teacher purpose to the girl teacher a month ago and
well me and a friend took his phone and were looking through the txt messages we seen a couple from a while ago that was to the girl teacher and they said some NASTY stuff (i wont go into details) their not married and they teacher a christian school .....EWW

2007-03-22 10:42:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Geeze, I struck the racial nerve in some of you.

Yes, this white man can dance. I am not black.

2007-03-22 10:42:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and can you give any personal instances as proof

2007-03-22 10:41:29 · 6 answers · asked by allseeingdi 3 in Friends

when it comes to attactiveness, which one, people, do you prefer someone who is swaggeringly confidence (actively confident) (not arrogant/cocky,though) or the one who is confidently low-profile/humble (passively confident)?

2007-03-22 10:40:58 · 3 answers · asked by strutter 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend who is the most stunning boy ive ever seen in my life (we're both 17). i'm not exaggerating, all of my girl friends fancy him, and every boy is jealous of him. and it's a miracle he asked me out, because i'm so average-looking (im not hideous, but im nothing special either. plane-jane). but he hits me sometimes. i dont know why.
and i can't dump him because he's the best i'll ever have! he has amazing cheekbones, perfectly shaped lips that i love to watch move when he talks, a great body, 6 pack, big brown doe eyes...
but it hurts. i have bruises, but where other people cant see them, like my torso- he says its for my own good. i guess its because i look ugly to him. he is above me in beauty.
and he's never got really violent, like knives and stuff, only punches. what shall i do? dumping is not an option.

2007-03-22 10:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by lucy a 1 in Singles & Dating

If I had a buck for every post I see on Answers from some girl scratching her head wondering what happened. Why was she cheated on. I want to bring out the violin. Many girls get cheated on because they set themselves up to be cheated, no ne else. If you stop by the blanket and engage the man in a game of 3 card Monty, you can't get mad when he has lighten your purse of $50. So many girls pine after some guy because he is the hot, hunky, popular one, all the other girls want him too. And they KNOW he has been through 8 g/f in 3 years yet they feel they have some special mojo that will make him give up his womanizing ways and keep them? If you girls know that he has "humped and dumped" all those girls before you are you just clueless or in denial because you don't want to think of the day when you are the next "humped and dumped" girl of his?

2007-03-22 10:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 10:39:41 · 2 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Singles & Dating

OK so i want my bridesmaids to have black dresses for my wedding, i am just torn on the flower colors. I have my heart set on a red bouqet of roses, but i don't know what color/kind of flowers my bridesmaids would have that would complement. but also i really like dark purples and light purples for flower choice, i just don't know if i want a purple bouqet over red roses. waht do i do any suggestions

2007-03-22 10:39:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i know i now sound desperate, but i really want a girlfriend. like i said, i am 15, and i love anime. and i live in texas

2007-03-22 10:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats going on? i live in devon where i live in at college or at my grandmas house. the reason for this is that when i was living with my mum and her boyfriend, he said to her its either him or me.
you can guess who she chose. yeah she chose her boyfriend
thing is they have split up now and i get on really well with him but when i stay with mum i end up walking out after a weeks worth of bitter rows.
what i would like to know is why do i get on so well with mark and not mum.
and how can i keep calm so i dont start or continue any arguements?
please help.

2007-03-22 10:37:52 · 2 answers · asked by Arty DV 1 in Family

2007-03-22 10:37:42 · 1 answers · asked by Premisicuos Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were constantly rebuffed by your partner, when would you actually decide to call it a day? or would you be gullible enough to hope things got better.

2007-03-22 10:37:34 · 5 answers · asked by allseeingdi 3 in Friends

I am sending out my wedding save-the-date magnets soon. The magnets have only our first names; most invitees know about us, but there are some who may need to be 'reminded' of who we are: ie, our parents' friends or long-lost friends whom we haven't kept in touch with for awhile. Is there a cute/proper way to let them know about us/who we are? For example, write a short note in there saying, "Hi, it's me, Jane Doe. I'm getting married!"

2007-03-22 10:36:04 · 5 answers · asked by Princess K 2 in Weddings

I can hear! I am very animated in speech and am very open to a relationship with this guy. He is so cute and funny and for the most part, I actually understand a lot of what he is saying because of his facial expressions and body language. PLUS, he can read my lips if I slow down my speech a little and if he can't I have been bringing paper and pen so I can write down what I am talking about and vice versa. I guess what I am really looking for is tips and insight into deaf culture - I don't want to do something completely off-base. I am new at this!

2007-03-22 10:36:03 · 9 answers · asked by d_nanner 2 in Singles & Dating

I am falling in love with a very close friend of mine. I would love to show him my affection but the friendship is very important to me and I am afraid to risk it. Its the classic dilemma. We spend a lot of one-on-one time together and he is very supportive of everything I do. He hugs me, calls me at work to cheer me up, cooks for me, looks admiringly into my eyes, introduces me somewhat protectively to everyone he knows, we've even considered living together but alas we're not actually together. On the other hand, he tells me whenever he finds another woman attractive. Perhaps he just considers me his closest friend. He has not had a girlfriend since we've met or even a one nighter that I'm aware of. I was living with another man when we met but have been single for over a year now. Should I share my feelings? Is it likely that he feels the same?

2007-03-22 10:35:44 · 3 answers · asked by blindedbyred 2 in Singles & Dating

hes comming out of the closet. what does that mean

2007-03-22 10:35:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 10:35:26 · 3 answers · asked by John T 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together nearly 3 years, and every thing was fine in the begining. he was respectful and did things like take me out for dinner or to the movies but, now every thing has changed. hes always talking down to me like im not as important as he is! Most of the time its in a joking manner but he dose it so often, i think its just disrespectfu, expesialy when he dose it i n front of other people. Ive tryed telling him just how much it bothers me and he tells me hes only joking around. im not sure what to do to let him know hes the one whos lucky to be with me and i want some more respect!

2007-03-22 10:33:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some good places?(money is not an issue)

2007-03-22 10:33:28 · 5 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Weddings

i am talking about 18 year old, im thinking to give flowers to her but, i am shy! :o

2007-03-22 10:33:15 · 1 answers · asked by George 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so i want my bridesmaids to have black dresses for my wedding, i am just torn on the flower colors. I have my heart set on a red bouqet of roses, but i don't know what color/kind of flowers my bridesmaids would have that would complement. but also i really like dark purples and light purples for flower choice, i just don't know if i want a purple bouqet over red roses. waht do i do any suggestions

2007-03-22 10:32:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've made some mistakes because I'm not perfect. He's made some mistakes because he's not perfect either. I offer him understanding but when I mess up he gets upset & calls me out of my name. I really want to work things out, but he doesn't know how to communicate with me. Whenever there's a problem he doesn't come out & say what it is he wants me to play this guessing game with him. So how do we get past this that we're going through now. There's been a violation of trust, not cheating or lying but snooping in one anothers business. It's cause some tention & I figured if people can get past cheating we can get past this. I need some advice on how to make things better.

2007-03-22 10:31:17 · 2 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you deny yourself happiness if your parents showed disapproval in your choice of.........anything

2007-03-22 10:30:46 · 6 answers · asked by allseeingdi 3 in Friends

Im mal, and my friend is Nat and. I like Bob, and Nat likes bob, but i am like in love with bob, and nat doesnt kno, and i dont want her to kno because then she;ll just want him more!! so how can i get nat to stop liking bob? and for bon to be mine/??

yes serious question

2007-03-22 10:30:14 · 1 answers · asked by Bongo! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a wedding to go to in May; It is a beach wedding that says resort attire suggested....any ideas? I was thinking a sundress but it is evening wedding and I don't know if that is the right thing..Help!

2007-03-22 10:30:09 · 2 answers · asked by ladybugoctoberone 2 in Weddings

I have had three serouse boyfriends in the last year and an half and all three have cheated on me, two told me and asked me to forgive them and the third I caught.

I forgave all of them and cuntinue to be their friends but will not re-enter a realtionship with them.

On asking them why they cheated on me none of them could give me a straight answer.

Why does this happen to me?

p.s I don't put out, but if they cared for me like they said they did that wouldn't have been an issue.

2007-03-22 10:29:16 · 2 answers · asked by Knight of Light 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 10:29:01 · 5 answers · asked by wiseyellowplum 2 in Family