i have a boyfriend who is the most stunning boy ive ever seen in my life (we're both 17). i'm not exaggerating, all of my girl friends fancy him, and every boy is jealous of him. and it's a miracle he asked me out, because i'm so average-looking (im not hideous, but im nothing special either. plane-jane). but he hits me sometimes. i dont know why.
and i can't dump him because he's the best i'll ever have! he has amazing cheekbones, perfectly shaped lips that i love to watch move when he talks, a great body, 6 pack, big brown doe eyes...
but it hurts. i have bruises, but where other people cant see them, like my torso- he says its for my own good. i guess its because i look ugly to him. he is above me in beauty.
and he's never got really violent, like knives and stuff, only punches. what shall i do? dumping is not an option.
2007-03-22 10:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by lucy a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have your whole life ahead of you...how do you know he's the best you'll ever have... i'd rather go out with a mediocre looking guy with a great personality rather than living bruises and a pretty face that will fade with time
besides think about it...if you don't dump him...he's going to dump you someday...which do you prefer?
2007-03-22 10:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by n1cyndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how pretty your boyfriend is.... he's with you because he knows a smart pretty girl won't put up with his ****. You don't respect yourself and let me guess.... your daddy beat(s) you too? I've seen friends go through this and if you don't get out of this relationship, you're not only going to lose your respect but your friends and family too. Is one pretty face worth losing your life? I'm not saying he's going to kill you but he's going to destry your life and that's a PROMISE. If dumping him isn't an option because of his status, air his dirty laundry. Who's gonna want a woman beater. Then we'll see who the hottest guy in school is. Knowing that makes him the ugliest. My friend's mom had the same issues with his dad. Never violent. Until 20years ago when he kidnapped her and chopped her up in pieces and threw her in a ditch in FL. We live in CT. She was unidentified and it was on the news. And ONLY YOU know what is for your own good!!!! Does he think he's your father? He doesn't love you, he loves his punching bag. If he doesn't like you the way you are, then why is he with you? Sweetheart, dumping him and exposing him is your ONLY option. TRUST ME ON THIS ONE I KNOW WHAT I'm TALKING ABOUT.... LOSE the LOSER!!
2007-03-22 10:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by assunta81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I not tellin u to leave him but it seems like u may think if u brake up with him u cant get anyone else thats a lie u will be suprised.No women or man deserve to b hit on.But u think u love him cause he hit u thats a big fat lie he can u love u alright love u to death get what i mean think about it youre only seventeen u got a life to live u havent done nothing yet think about college and traveling don't get caught on no boy right now. Think Big!
2007-03-22 10:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by klo jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU SERIOUS, if he hits you he's obviously not that nice of a guy. trust me cute faces are a dime a dozen, you don't need to be with this guy cause he's cute, some of the ugliest people are so georgeous on the outside.
By the way I really think you should break up with him because when a guys thinks he's better than you(which is obviously what you make him think) it's not gonna be a good relationship.
please get out before you can't
2007-03-22 10:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by krasy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you ever heard of this phrase? "It's doesn't matter what's on the outside, it's what's inside that counts". What it means it doesn't how good looking he is, if he's evil and punches you, then cut and run before your in the hospital because he hit you hard. If you need help breaking up with him, then go to http://www.lovingyou.com/ and go under breaking up. If I was you, I'd quiet and run before I'm in the hospital.
2007-03-22 10:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't respect you. Sorry to say this but thats the truth. Let him know that you not his pet and if wants to be with you he has to respect you. It doesn't matter how you or him look we are all equal. If litens great. If didnot great for you. I am sure that there is someone what there who likes you and you just dont know and who would love and respect you. Dont let his handsomeness break your self-esteem.
2007-03-22 11:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by EDD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit me once, shame on you, hit me twice, shame on me.....
i don't know what ever made you think your not "beautiful" enough to be loved...or what ever made him think he has a right to punch you.. or what so called reason he has for hitting you.... however, if after he hits you, you pick up something, and knock the t-total crap out of him, and say in a really nice tone, please don't hit me anymore, i don't like it, and it reallllllyy hurts. i'm sure he will think twice about hitting you again. on the other hand, maybe he doesn't have the ca-hoonies to break up with you, and he's trying to "run you off"....because he knows deep down, you are too good for him....
think about it sister.....do you see your dad smacking, or hitting your mom??? it's NOT o.k.
2007-03-22 10:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a freakin' idiot who needs some serious counseling for your low self esteem issues. Why in the world would you put up with an abusive pretty boy when you could date someome who maybe isn't a knockout but who treats you well?
2007-03-22 10:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
since he is so adorable u should help talk to him into getting help for his behavior. i know he is cute but u cannot let him beating u up like that. if u can't get help then i would say to dump him.
2007-03-22 10:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's violence...even if he's not using knifes, it's as bad as if he used them. and remember your beautiful and if he picked you and he's as hot as you say then your hot and don't let anyone else say any different. this guy's a dick, call him right now and say that he's abusing you and you want to break up. when he leaves a mark that's when it gets to bad....DON'T PUT UP WITH THIS
2007-03-22 10:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋