when would you throw in the towel?

Question

If you were constantly rebuffed by your partner, when would you actually decide to call it a day? or would you be gullible enough to hope things got better.

Answer 1

Sometimes people are just at different places in their lives
and when the situation seems hopeless good things come out of it.
I would tell your partner that you care for them very much.
Then move on with your life. See what happens after that
but don't wait around. Build a life for yourself and keep busy.
If they really care, they will come back because you meant alot to them. But, don't hold your breath.

Answer 2

My ex started rebuffing me when he was having an affair and then we got a divorce. Is it sudden behaviour from your partner or has it come on over time.
Try and have a chat to sort it out and see where you are coming from. Your partner may have a completely different view on your relationship. You dont say how long its been going on but if its for a long period of time I would seriously think of moving on.

Answer 3

After gettng your partner to sit down, listen to you telling him/her what he is doing to you. If things remain the same, don't carry on with the relationship, the person won't change. Throw in the towe.

Answer 4

i would have to have a good chat with him and hope things get better, if its nothing too serious then after a good chat about both wants and needs for both of you things should normally get better, if they don't and you have lived up to their wants and needs but they haven't reciprocated then youi would have to consider the popssibility it is more serious and i would have to leave the relationship!

Answer 5

depends how much you like the partner i guess and his she worth fighting for me personally i would hang in there for a fair old time and hope it pays of