I am falling in love with a very close friend of mine. I would love to show him my affection but the friendship is very important to me and I am afraid to risk it. Its the classic dilemma. We spend a lot of one-on-one time together and he is very supportive of everything I do. He hugs me, calls me at work to cheer me up, cooks for me, looks admiringly into my eyes, introduces me somewhat protectively to everyone he knows, we've even considered living together but alas we're not actually together. On the other hand, he tells me whenever he finds another woman attractive. Perhaps he just considers me his closest friend. He has not had a girlfriend since we've met or even a one nighter that I'm aware of. I was living with another man when we met but have been single for over a year now. Should I share my feelings? Is it likely that he feels the same?
2007-03-22 10:35:44 · 3 answers · asked by blindedbyred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds good to me. Take a chance and tell him, he just might want to do the same but is afraid of you.
2007-03-22 10:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems so sweet... He is the right person who care so much for you ...
I think you should share your feeling with him. If he is your good friend, he will never mind it and keep your's friendship continue irrespective of whether he accept your proposal or not.
So don't delay for a moment & go ahead...GOOD LUCK
2007-03-22 10:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Animesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE HE LIKES YOU TO ME,TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND WAIT FOR HIS RESPONSE.TELL HIM YOUR NOT GONNA JEOPADISE YOUR FRIENDSHIP BUT THATS HOW YOU FEEL-YOU LOVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 10:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋