Stuck in my last months of eighth grade. All the teachers packing projects in, I can deal. But I have some problems for y'all.
1. So there's this girl, and she and I were really good friends. She switched schools and got bitchy. It's cool, I hate her (don't I?) and she doesn't bother me anyore. But there's still a part of me that wants to know what I did to make her hate me. Should I find out?
2. I like this guy. He's great. Funny, sweet, cute...whole package. But he's really shy and even if he did like me he probably wouldn't ask me out. Like I said, it's cool, I can deal, we're KIDS. But should I stop liking him?
3. Remember the bitchy girl? She is BFFs with one of my friends. My friend got jealous of the bitchy girl's new, better friends. So she came to me to talk, and for 3 days we were really close and she was telling me lots of things that she shouldn't have. But now she and bitchy girl are BFFs again, and I'm not sure if she still wants to be friends anymore. What do I do????
2007-03-22 11:05:36 · 4 answers · asked by Yuggy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1. Maybe it would be better if you didn't because than you don't have to deal with it or you can find out what you actually did and see if you can fix it.
2. nah don't stop liking someone just because they are shy i have liked this guy for almost 5 months and he sounds almost the same except the part about being shy (he's anything but shy)
3. um wait and see what happens with a lot of girls (epically around your age) girls don't know a lot them self's and so she may not know if she dose or not ( i should know I'm only a year older than you)
good luck and i hope i helped you
2007-03-28 21:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer to question 1 and 3 let your friend know that you do not like the way she has been treating you lately. Some friends just grow apart and this is normal do not get to hung up on it.
as per question 2 the boy has done nothing wrong.
if you like him let him know
but do not stop liking him as a person if you stay just friends
i have friends from grade school that I have known for over 30 years.
i would hate to think i threw their friendship away because of a grade school crush.
2007-03-26 17:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by makeda m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Dont worry about it. If she decided to be an idiot and go all bitchy you dont need to spend any more time with her. Just forget about her
2. Why dont you ask him out yourself. If he's too shy to do it, then you do it!
3. First of all I wouldn't tell you friend anything cause its pretty clear that when shes mad she cant keep her mouth shut. And if she only wanted to be you friend cause she was fighting with another then ditch her. You dont need friends like that!
2007-03-23 05:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by angellover6056 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you stop liking him for what ? Ummm... Don't be friends with the bitchy girl because she's most likely to be fake and no one needs that in their life. And me personally, life is really too short for that because when people act like that I have a nag for cursing them out to hurting them.
2007-03-28 11:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋