give your opinion?

Question

lets say a guy and girl really like eachother a lot but they live far away. the girl happens to be going to college near the guy in 5 months.

for what reason might the guy stop talking to her?

Answer 1

he might have found someone else

Answer 2

He might stop talking to her because most guys from like15 years of age and on up to and including their 40's and sometimes beyond let their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, And distance makes the heart go wander so to speak ,,,, It's probably that he's found more fertile ground right where he's at ,,,, Guys your age have no idea what the words love and commitment mean let alone what they entail ,,,, 95% of the time or more most of them are just in lust instead of love ,,,,, Their glands do the thinking instead of their brain if they even have a brain ,,,, It's just the nature of the male animal is all ,,,, They are always ready to rutt and most of the time the female takes a chance just being with them unless she's found an exceptional one which is really rare ,,,, I wouldn't worry just too much about it though and I certainly wouldn't put my life on hold where he's concerned ,,,, If he was really interested in you then he'd be on the phone to you every day tending to his garden so to speak ,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond ,,,, Maybe it's time for you to go fishing ,,,, Find some one that's fun and exciting to be with and get on with your life ,,,, They are out there all you have to do is just find one ,,,, Some of them even come trouble and problem free and will treat you the way you should be treated ,,,, Don't waste your time with this guy ,,,, He evidently dosn't want to put any of his time in you ,,,, You'd be smart if you tried to get as wide a range of aquaintances as you can while you are still young ,,,, This would enable you to make a wiser decision as to just who you'd want to settle down with when you are ready for a more involved relationship later on ,,,, Who knows ,,,, tying yourself down to one person too early just might cause you to miss meeting that Mr Right Guy ,,,,

You've posed an interesting situation here though and a good question ,,,, If you get more than one star for this question then one of them is from me ,,,, Give what I've suggested some thought ,,,, Good luck ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,

Answer 3

The simplest answer is usually the right answer. Similar to the whole anthropomorphic versus parsimony debate among the people studying animal behavior. Parsimony has reigned in comparative psychology, and applying it in this situation would not be wrong. It simply states, "If a simpler answer can explain a complex behavior then it should be used." In this case, the truth is probably that the person doesn't like you. Although hurtful to say, you asked for the opinion.

Answer 4

He might have found a different girlfriend. If he found a new girl, then he doesn't want to talk to the girl a lot because (1) the new gf is getting jealous; and (2) he doesn't want to lead the girl on in case the girl is interested in him romantically. If you are the girl, you might want to communicate to him that you're not interested in him romantically (if you're not) or just ask if he's dating anyone. That will clear things up.

Answer 5

The guy must let her explore and accept the fact that she is moving forward with her life and the whole key to sucess is to educate your self in a way that she notices you rite beside her.Live for you man and let her live to be sucessfull.Just always remember to push her to suceed and show the passion of the heart as it should be shown.Truth,compasion and selfless acts.A real woman will not allow such a thing to go unpunished.Kapeish?yes i said unpunished.

Answer 6

Another girls close to home.......He wont wait, or he will say he is, all along getting some, and then you come along in 5 months not knowing. Just let it take its toll, dont think it or rush it or it will not work

Answer 7

he dosent want her to see what he's really been doing this whole time...hes been doing things with the ladies and now that your moving closer to him your going to find out what kind of guy he really is....

Answer 8

maybe he doesnt trust the girl enough fo a long distance relationship, and vice versa.

Answer 9

That it's too far away for an relationship or that she is too old for you.

Answer 10

Afraid of commitment?

Answer 11

because hes afraid of what might happen