confidence is sexy in everyone. Try to imagine for a second that youre dating a guy with zero confidence. he thinks he's ugly and you have to constantly have to remind him what a great guy he is. He doesn't have the courage to make the first move, he doesnt think he deserves you, and he follows you like a sick puppy waiting for a little affection to make him feel better about himself while getting jealous of every single guy you talk to. sickening, right?
If a woman is confident, then the man knows that she doesn't need him - she wants him. Which is far sexier than a sick little puppy wondering if they look fat in their jeans. Not to mention the fact that you KNOW they could easily have another man, and she's not going to put up with any bull.
2007-03-22 11:57:45
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answered by axe happy juggalo 2
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Because being sexy is more about an attitude than simply a style or a look. Attitude is how you carry yourself and how you project your feelings, and confidence is the freedom to express your true attitude without needing to compare it against anyone else's. That's sexy.
2007-03-22 11:57:17
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answered by Anonymous
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its true for both sex'z.
confidence is the way one carriez oneself. if ur a guy ...and this average looking woman walks by ...its the confidence in her walk and the way she holds her head up and catches ur eye. THATS the attraction. but if a beautiful woman ...walks by ...straightning her clothes and looking in the mirror every 2 seconds...thats a turn off right there.
same goes for women. a really good looking guy keeps fidgeting and checking the mirror every chance he gets and fishez for compliments to boost his ego is yuky !!!
a cute guy who is comfortable in his skin is just more attractive.
2007-03-22 11:57:40
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answered by zjk 2
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it is because you don't want an idiot, just like a woman loves a man with confidence.
2007-03-22 11:55:46
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answered by ironmaiden675 1
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That is very true to have a woman who knows what she wants and not afraid to get it. She does nt have to be bossy just herself.
2007-03-22 11:55:18
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answered by Anonymous
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confidence manifests in an attitude and actions that say i am an interesting person --- because of that attitude people want to know them better and they exhude sex if that is the message they want to give
2007-03-22 12:32:15
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answered by Waterdragon 7
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Yes, confidence is a turn-on for guys just like it is for girls. A confident chick is more of a challenge...and we like challenges.
2007-03-22 11:56:42
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answered by askmeanything 1
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I know Im not a man, but do you think someone who is unconfindent sexy, because man or woman I do not, someone with low self esteem is not attractive.
2007-03-22 11:54:22
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answered by alexandria1_1999 5
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well it sure is alot better than them not being able to take a compliment, and thinking they are ugly and such
2007-03-22 11:56:11
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answered by Anonymous
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