i have lived with my aunt for the past 10 years. when i was 6 my mom and 2 little sisters moved 2 virginia but i stayed here in pennsylvania with my aunt. i barely ever get to see my mom because she doesn't come up 2 visit very often and my aunt never wants 2 go 2 virginia 2 visit her. i really want 2 go live with my mom but i dont want 2 make my aunt feel like i dont like living with her because thats no where near being true. what's a good way 2 tell my aunt that i want 2 live with my mom without her getting mad or feeling like i hate living here with her??
2007-03-22 11:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mom already knows that i want 2 live with her and she is fine with it
2007-03-22 12:00:40 · update #1
if i was you i would wait until you two were alone and tell her how much you love her. tell her how much you appreciate her being there for you when you needed her, and how much you enjoyed living there. but now that your older you feel like you dont get to spend as much time with your mother as you would like to go live with her so that you can become close to her. just make sure that you assure her that it was nothing she did to make you decide this. and im sure she will be understanding about it. good luck
2007-03-22 16:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by shelly l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would sit your Aunt down and tell her that you love her, but you also love your mom. Then I would tell her that she is your mom and you are missing her terribly and you would like to go live with her. I would then tell her that you will never forget that she opened her home to you and you appreciate the guidance she has given you and that you hope she will always be there for you.
I am sure that your Aunt loves you and will also support you in your choice, it sounds to me like she is a very caring and devoted aunt and you are lucky to have so many people that love you Good luck
2007-03-22 19:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Marla D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell your aunt that you miss your mom. She had (or has) a mom too so she should know the feeling of missing her.
2007-03-22 19:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by E! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not call your Mom and ask her to talk to your aunt first. Maybe she can intervene for you. And it may be a good idea to talk to Mom first anyway.
2007-03-22 18:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ask your aunt if you can go stay with your mom for a couple weeks or so, see how that goes first before you make such a hard decision.
2007-03-22 18:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋