We are both attending the same college and he has girl friends that he wants to hang out with, without me. There are usually other guys there, but I am still uncomfortable with it. He also enjoys hanging out with a girl from our high school that goes to this college as well. He wants to hang out with her and her roommate without my caring- yet he liked this girl when he was a sophomore in high school ( we are now freshman in college) Should I be okay with him hanging out with these girls? He always tell me he does not like any of them and never will, but i just don't like it and he thinks i'm being jealous and controlling.
2007-03-22 12:14:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
keep him on a short leash...lol
2007-03-22 12:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't he have you hang out with him? Is he ashamed, will it cramp his style or does he not want these other girls to know he has a girlfriend? Would he enjoy you hanging out with a group of guys especially someone in particular? I don't think you are controlling or jealous. If I were you I,d dump him. In all my life any guy I have dated has not expected me to hang out on the fringes while he hangs around with other girls or guys. My husband now won't go any where without me even though I tell him it's ok he says that if I can't go he wont go.
2007-03-23 07:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by Vera K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur problem is that he is the one calling her not her calling him. U can tell him to stop and how it make u feel. In the end it will be up to him if he respects u and cares about ur feelings to step up and be a man.
2007-03-22 19:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Natural 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to hang out with them, fine. but without you, i say, NO WAY, what the heck you call that? you are the one that should be first and foremost on his mind and want to be with, he is laying unfounded guilt on you and don't go for it. he wants to be with them fine but you dump him fast, you don't need anyone like that in your life. You should be Numero Uno...don't put up with it, make us women proud....
2007-03-22 19:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you're both married, he can hang out with whoever he wants.
2007-03-22 20:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy Sn. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋