I am 27 years old and i will often ride the public transportation system where i live, It's not that uncommon that i will get talking to a girl that will find attractive while riding it and will have a conversation with her.
Is is too assertive to ask her for her # if I've like just met her like 15 minutes before?
2007-03-22 12:12:07 · 13 answers · asked by the d 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How are you supposed to get in contact with her again unless you either ask her for her # or give her yours? The worst that could happen is that you could get a slap in the face or she could just say, "no". When I met my first husband, he asked me for my # and I told him that no, I didn't want to give it out so he gave me his and then I called him the next week... that seemed to turn out okay.
2007-03-22 12:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she comes out as strong as you seem to, I wouldn't ask her for her number untill you've met her at least half a doz times and talked with her. I find many attractive females too but I got to know them for a while before I make a move.
2007-03-22 19:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that is being too assertive to ask her but if you feel she could think so and it would scare or turn her off then just tell her you would like to talk to her again sometime if she is interested and give her your number.
2007-03-22 19:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if she seems to be enjoying the conversation. Just be casual. Say "not to be too forward but maybe we could do this another time." Maybe instead of asking for her number give her yours.
2007-03-22 19:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say something like that: "I'm sorry if this seems a little forward considering we just met, but there's something about your smile that makes me think that if I don't ask for your number that I'm going to walk away and regret it." ------ now that is nice and flattering without being creepy.
2007-03-22 19:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you could seem like a stalker. Instead, offer her your phone number with a casual invitation to maybe call you sometime.
2007-03-22 19:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you may never see this person again. Just tell her that she seems rather interesting and you most likely wont meet up again by chance and ask her for her phone number.
2007-03-22 19:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, b/c chances r u wont c her again unless u do get her number. plus ur 27, not some creepy teenager would could "fall in love" w/ u in like 2 secs.
2007-03-22 19:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her your number instead. that will save you both embaressment. unless she refuses to take your number of course. then you will just be really thankful that you didnt ask for hers!
good luck
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2007-03-22 19:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep a pen with you, give her yours and say, hey i think your really funny, give me a call if you wanna go for dinner some time,
2007-03-22 19:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by lezzers2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋