Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

I was with my bf for 12 months I got pregnant and then he left me because he said he didn't want the baby. I'm 4 months pregnant and a bit worried about raising the baby without its father. To any men from your personal experience, do you think he will want to be more involved with the child after its born? And if he decides to should I forgive him for how he treated me? OR do you think He may reject the child completely if he didnt want it in the first place?

2007-03-21 02:19:54 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah j 1 in Singles & Dating

Down town in the city of chicago on a school night with a girl friend and the friend's dad and step mom who i have never meet the band is Bullet for my Valentine{kinda rock ,emo,punk music] she's not all that mature eather and her friend is a flack should i let her go,would you let your daughter go?

2007-03-21 02:19:15 · 6 answers · asked by XoAngieXo 3 in Friends

we are with each other all the time so I know he isn't getting it somewhere else. I ask him about it and he just says that he does not want me to think thats all he wants. I have never been with a man who was this disinterested in sex and it is driving me crazy what should I do

2007-03-21 02:18:01 · 18 answers · asked by madeline4477 1 in Singles & Dating

cps just wants to take my children because of my past criminal history

2007-03-21 02:17:43 · 4 answers · asked by bill j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i see lots of ummm not so hot guys with cute girls all the time....i'm athletic but not all that good looking just about average which makes it very hard to meet girls....so how do i get a cute girls attention and get them to go out with me?

2007-03-21 02:17:39 · 16 answers · asked by jimbo fury 1 in Singles & Dating

Just because I enjoy the bartop scene at clubs doesn't mean I am a professional dancer and I certainly am NOT interested in doing any guy favours for cash!

2007-03-21 02:16:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People are so use to being caught up in daily life or just plain miserable that they don't know how to be happy.

2007-03-21 02:16:20 · 3 answers · asked by LindaAnn 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont really like sex, but i fake and make loads of noise and pretend im loving it, every guy i slept with love it and always comes back for more. Is there any other girls that do this type of thing? does it work for u 2? are they hooked after? is it wrong to fake? cos in a way its like lying isnt it, but if its making them happy then why not?

2007-03-21 02:15:28 · 28 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing a girl for a few months now but we live a hundred and thirty miles apart. This means we only get to see each other at weekends or when we are off work. I know a lot of people have jobs that seperate them from their partner but this is a new relationship not one that is already established. I wonder what the future holds sometimes.

2007-03-21 02:15:16 · 16 answers · asked by brummie73s 3 in Singles & Dating

I live in Texas and am a very involved father. I have never had a late child support payment (am overpaid actually), but very concerned about the quality of care my daughter is receiving from her mother. She did not receive her 3 or 4 yr old shots on time (I did not find out til school was starting for Kindergarten), she shows up on Saturday morning with same underwear I sent her to school with on Thursday morning, she seems mal-nourished and does not gain any weight. (Turning 6 in a week and weights 37 lbs - about the same weight for the last year). I know her diet consists of mostly chicken nuggest and french fries from McDonalds while with her mom. On top of all this, she does not enforce a bedtime, has multiple men in the house staying the night, demonstrates poor moral examples. The one thing she does well is shows her a lot of attention. My daughter sees this as love. I've thought about an attorney, child protective services, etc. What do you recommend for my situation?

2007-03-21 02:15:04 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie T 1 in Family

Kiss my boyfriend in front of theguy that likes me it makes me feel bad to break his heart. & my b/f thinks i'm gonna brake up with him if i dont kiss him from class to class. My boyfriend knows that this guy likes me and that we are good friends.

2007-03-21 02:14:57 · 2 answers · asked by In_Love 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I spent the day at the hospital with my sister. My nephew was cut in his face by his girlfriends mother.He has to receive 100 stitches in his face. My nephew is more like my own son than my nephew. As I sat with my sister I tried to talk her out of taking revenge on this woman. Even though I did not feel the that way. I wanted to do it as well. However, I was even more upset with the police department they did not do anything. They made the excuse that they was tired of getting calls from that address. They never came to the hospital to take a statement from my nephew, they only took a statement from the woman. From what was told to me was that her daughters was fighting and he tried to break them up and she got mad at him and pushed him as he was walking away she pushed him and he still tried to get away. She picked up a knife and began stabbing him. Her daughters tried to tell the police this and they told them to get the F*&* back in the house. NEED HELP PLEASE!!

2007-03-21 02:14:45 · 9 answers · asked by princess4u 2 in Friends

2007-03-21 02:14:07 · 3 answers · asked by shanta m 1 in Family

2007-03-21 02:13:17 · 20 answers · asked by rohit 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you still love him and be faithful to him?

(imagine he had a car accident and his genitalia were damaged)

2007-03-21 02:12:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it wasnt when we were dating, but i didnt know he ever slept with anyone, i haven't and know i found out he just slept with girls for fun... And i feel really upset about this.. I think you should only sleep with people you love and apartenly he doesnt.. And i am not ready to sleep with him, i want to be madlyin love first and stuff, and know i feel like i have to... because he has... get it? what should i do? is this normal, he doesnt get how i feel.....please help me:(

2007-03-21 02:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep blaming my current man for everything that my ex's did to me in the past.....I try not to I try to stop and thinking about what I'm going to say first and than say but it always turns into a fight and people walking out of hanging up.....and I know if I keep this up i'm to loose the best thing in my life.....His a great man to me and a great father to my son....I just can't stop flipping out and blaming him and accusing of him doing things behind my back what should I do??? He knows about my past and why I act or say some of things I do and he understand but his not gonna put up with the shyt forever ya know.....

2007-03-21 02:12:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK please dont critizise me on this but im in a gang bloods, my ex boyfriend represented crips....... i liked him to much to let that get in the way of me and him..........

one day he asked me out and we went out then after 3 weeks i got in trouble and i was sent to tampa so i couldnt see him for 3 more weeks... he ended up breaking up with me over myspace........ he said he would of done it in person but he couldnt see me............ he showed alot of love when we were together but now that were not together he doesnt even look at me he has blocked me on myspace (I DIDNT EVEN DO ANYHTING TO HIM I DIDNT CHEAT NOTHING) when my friends asked him what was up he said it was becuase my friends kept calling him a crip if he rep's it hello he is gonna be called it................ i dont know why he broke up with me but he did and a week later he had a new girl friend and trust me i look way better than her.... i miss him though........... i need help getting over him plz help

2007-03-21 02:11:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 02:10:14 · 22 answers · asked by LusT aFter INsaNIty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love him but its hard to deal with the fact that we live in different states and we cant have a normal relationship like most people. it bothers me more then him his more willing to stay with me its been over a year that we have had this relationship and weve had some serious problem but we have managed to get over them im young you see and i noe that once i get into college or work more hours its going to get even harder because where i live he wont find a job that suits him. i dont want to give up on us but i sont want to be a fool and catch more feeling waste more time if at the end of the day it might not work... so should i keep on with this relationship or let it go for my own sake
he even tells me at times that if i go and do better things i might find someone better then him

2007-03-21 02:09:51 · 11 answers · asked by nata s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was talking to this guy online and he told me he didnt like white girls, he said he hated "white skin"....so that really hurt my feelings, why are people like that? i told him to leave me alone but he continued to still talk to me...I think he was indian..why are people like that? :(

2007-03-21 02:09:50 · 18 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Singles & Dating

Girls do you find it a turn off when you know a guy is still a virgin? im 20 and didnt really care in the past but now i hear 14,15 yr olds are having intercourse and now it makes me feel weird and left out

2007-03-21 02:08:56 · 18 answers · asked by Tookie Williams 4 in Singles & Dating

He's goes on my myspace page all the time & reads all my comments. He hates that I have guys on my top list, though he's indeed in first. I love him so much & he knows that, but he will never understand. He lets his friends get into his mind, makes him think I'm a flirt. I'm so not a flirt!!! I could care less about any of my friends. Sure...Im nice, I'll hang out and chit-chat, but my bfs first, he means alot to me. And lately, his ex-gf is sending him txt or calls to make him jealous about me. I DONT KNOW WHAT SHE SAYS!!! But, dam its got me jealous, he said that she would randomly show up @ his house, but he wont open! Stilllllll...shes making him angry over absolutely NOTHING its so frustrating!!!! Seriously, I'm going to get tired of this!

2007-03-21 02:08:53 · 10 answers · asked by micolperu317 2 in Singles & Dating

i juz broke up with my long distance bf, for some reason. but found out that my friend likes me a lot. we been hanging-out together with my other friends too. and in some other time, he called me and done a romantic actions. i really appreciated in what his doing to me. but i feel weird in my heart. i dont know whether its a love or caring feeling inside my heart. he's a very nice person and always makes me feel happy and needed. what should i do? isn't too soon for a new relationship? isn't fair if i told him to wait?

2007-03-21 02:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by EJ 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone had a positive experience on MySpace?

My teenage son got involved with the site recently so I created my own account. Used all correct information (including age & photo) except for the name. My mailbox immediately began to fill with messages from scammers, and that was all I got for the ten days before I closed the account. Did try sending messages (didn't say anything creepy or forward).to people who "looked" real, but got no replies.

2007-03-21 02:06:41 · 13 answers · asked by James D 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife just informed me that she wants to stay home after our baby is born. I make pretty good money but not sure i can afford everything on my own. We are buying a new house, then i would have to take over her car payment, car insurance, student loans, credit cards as well as put everyone on my health insurance which would be another $800 a month....what do i do

2007-03-21 02:06:08 · 30 answers · asked by John D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When someone on the streets call you a B**** we get mad and be ready to fight, your home girl can call you a ***** and we just look past it, but if your MAN or your significant other call you a B**** it feels like you been disrespected.

2007-03-21 02:03:42 · 21 answers · asked by Sincere 1 in Singles & Dating

and never seen that person again.It happends to me.

2007-03-21 02:03:28 · 22 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 02:03:18 · 16 answers · asked by rohit 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married mid april. I have two teenage girls who will be walking down the aisle. I am looking for a country wedding song that they can walk down the aisle to. HELP!

2007-03-21 02:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by rdrroxane 1 in Weddings