i juz broke up with my long distance bf, for some reason. but found out that my friend likes me a lot. we been hanging-out together with my other friends too. and in some other time, he called me and done a romantic actions. i really appreciated in what his doing to me. but i feel weird in my heart. i dont know whether its a love or caring feeling inside my heart. he's a very nice person and always makes me feel happy and needed. what should i do? isn't too soon for a new relationship? isn't fair if i told him to wait?
2007-03-21 02:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by EJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you seem wise for your age..
no need to actually have a bf
it would prob not be good to date this good friend bc if it did not go well later then you would lose your good friend, but it's your call bc only you know him like you do, but again, I would suggest against it..
a good friend like you have is good to have and you can hang out, do things and there is no pressure if you just tell him you're not ready for anohter relationship now, you want to hang out, have fun and do things and get to know yourself better.
He should be cool with it and then just do what you would normally do with a friend. sometimes being the girl hanging out with the guy(s) and being one of the guys AND the girl is so cool and feels so cool bc you are and they(the other girls) are not.
just go slow and take one day at a time...time is on your side
2007-03-21 02:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friend that it's a little too soon to get into another relationship right now. If he really likes you then he'll understand, and it'll give you some time to figure out how you feel about him.
2007-03-21 02:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep no doubt you gotta tell this man to cool it down, and i'd probably distance myself from him alittle but not completley. you jus got outta relationship and the feeling you could have is the feeling of being lonely and any guy that has time could fill this role. just cause a guy is nice doesn't mean he should be your bf holla
2007-03-21 02:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by wutzcrackinb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as "wait" to know someone better before you commit yourselves....the "waiting" period is a personal space allowance for each other to explore a further understanding for each other beside knowing what one exactly want in a relationship. This is not "wait"...it is being responsible to yourselves....
2007-03-21 02:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the way to handle this would be just to slow things down with him. Its going to be hard because he is in love but he will understand. If he loves you so much then any decision you make will be good to him.
2007-03-21 02:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by mrintelligent12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot start a new realtionship until you have put the old one to rest completely and it does'nt sound like you are over your ex yet.Give it some time what is the rush..
2007-03-21 02:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you want to do. If you are not ready for a relationship, then let him know. If you feel you are ready for one, then go for it.
All up to you :)
2007-03-21 02:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word for you: yes!
2007-03-21 02:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Freedom yeah freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ready to move on, do it, if your not dont rush into anything.
2007-03-21 02:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋