i dont really like sex, but i fake and make loads of noise and pretend im loving it, every guy i slept with love it and always comes back for more. Is there any other girls that do this type of thing? does it work for u 2? are they hooked after? is it wrong to fake? cos in a way its like lying isnt it, but if its making them happy then why not?
2007-03-21 02:15:28 · 28 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 22. and i dont sleep with lots of men i have only slept with 3 in 2 years, one was a long term boyfirend, i did prefer havin sex with him but i still didnt particullary like it. and i am kinky, do loads of positions etc that also probably what they like
2007-03-21 02:33:46 · update #1
I used to do this all the time, thankfully now i dont have to!! Men love it wen women make more noise, they respond to it and it turns them on even more. Usually if you and your partner dont click then sex isnt very enjoyable, it is bad to fake really but it makes the man feel better and thats what women always want to do! Experiment with what you like and dont like, play by yourself and then with partners tell them wot u like and show them! Then they will know 110% that they are making you moan for all the right reasons and will still want to come back for more, only then you wont mind and sex wont be a chore!
2007-03-21 02:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by vickyvixen84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow think about what you jus said. You don't like sex so you fake it an they keep coming back. I think you must have a true need to have some one to please, but going about it in the fashion you are, will eventually bring you emptiness Look for an old fashioned approach, the art of getting to know a man before you sleep with him. If he will not make you happy in your heart then there is no reason to start. Don't have sex to make a man happy have sex so you both feel happy...........And yes faking is lying, an if you have to ask if it is wrong, it probably is ...... an in the end you will both be hurt.....but take my advise an do an you please . (-;
2007-03-21 02:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by fawn b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys probably do love it because they leave satisfied-but what are you getting out of it? Do you actually not like sex-but just do it for the guy? Or is it that you haven't achieved an orgasm through sex? If it's the latter,I would suggest more foreplay and discovering what exactly gives you pleasure.
A blow up doll can give a guy pleasure-but knowing he's truly satisfied his partner sexually makes the sex even better for him-and,more importantly for you!
2007-03-21 03:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you haven't found the righ guy yet, but if you dont like sex, how can you be kinky and do loads of different positions ? surely you must like some part of to try different positions ? and yes, trying different positions and doing different things will keep the blokes coming back, but only for the sex and not for you. if you dont enjoy it, stop doing it until you meet someone and want to have sex with them.
2007-03-21 02:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But wouldn't it be great if you had no need to fake and actually truly enjoyed the experience? I feel sad for what you are obviously missing out on.
If you have to fake then you are either crap at sex or are with the wrong men!!
2007-03-21 08:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to, with my few previous partners, and yeah, two of the three, kept trying to come back for more,. but once i met my husband, i found out what good sex is. now all the noises i make are for real!!!
you will find the right guy for u, who will do exactly what you need. then u might change ur mind about sex, and stop having to fake it.
2007-03-21 02:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs_W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure we all fake it sometimes. I like having sex & if it's good I want him to know it's good! However if the sex is boring I really fake it b/c it drives them crazy & make them climax faster so they can finish & kick rocks!!
But be careful some men can tell when ur faking....especially if they r small & trust me they know if they have a small pee pee or not, lol
2007-03-21 02:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
I would say you just havent found what you like, put a little spice in your life, get kinky! If your having to fake it, your not doing it right, and if you fake it, he cant learn what it is he needs to do to get you there.
Good luck ;) Also, it's not just about making him happy!
2007-03-21 02:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by honie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like sex you're doing it wrong. I would NEVER have to fake it - I really do like it. You should not fake it - perhaps you should stop doing it until you find someone that really turns you on and you enjoy it with.
2007-03-21 02:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to fake it then you are obviously not doing it right!! I would hate to have to do that!! There is nothing like being satisfied and genuinely enjoying sex with your partner. Why would you want to fake in order to make them happy? Do you not know how to please? Read up on sex hun and learn to do it properly!!!
2007-03-21 02:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jaksi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋